As overcome your inhibitions

The relationship with the fetish is ambiguous: on the one hand, it makes sense to save memories, even the most intimate of the couple feel something special with his touch, remember erotic sensations with their friction. It is also natural gue certain colors or textures, some dresses or clothes enhance the image of our partners and refine our desire.

However, the pathological fetish is aguel gue can not maintain a sexual relationship without the interposition of fetish or eliminates gue directly to the loved one to replace it with an archetype or object, the source of its excitement. In the first case, it is necessary to overcome inhibitions and false complexes. Get carried away by the imagination, ask our partner some intimate memories and feel their contact with our skin. In the second case, control our passion for things without raising object of worship. A healthy balance.

Examples of famous fetishists

History is full of famous examples fetishists. Do you recall any of these?

• The German writer Goethe explained how it had its most intense sexual experiences when masturbaba while he wrote.
• Antony Perkins gave life to the sick in the cinema pathological Norman Bates in the saga "Psychosis". Retain the corpse of his mother in the room and recreaba telling their experiences with different women.
• In the book "Perfume" by Patrick Süskind, the protagonist lacks body odor and seeks to achieve of beautiful women to gue ends for murdering outburst. When he succeeds, it unleashes an orgy in the village.
• Alfred Hitchcock is known as the filmmaker fetish in its own right. His passion for objects manifests itself in each of his films.
• Richard Wagner needed to compose be in a study with a turquoise fabric.

Fetishism in history

The oldest cultures include fetishism as one of the strongest demonstrations and entrenched. Some tribes in Africa or the Amazon adorn their sexual organs, sometimes for religious reasons, others by aesthetics.

In East is widespread custom of tattooing. Complications figures and ornaments cover the body.
Hence, there is only one step to reach the western makeup that women use to highlight or disguising their factions, trying to highlight their beauty and become more desirable for men. The same goes with other elements such as earrings, jewelry, hairstyles ... all of them, common elements in many communities,
in one way or another.

Religion is not excluded from this list.
In Mexico is worshipped with some clay figurines of sexual organs disproportionate, and attitudes completely explicit.
The Egyptians made representations with the divinities male phallus outside his clothes.

And in Christianity are famous capitals of the Romanesque churches, which showed relationships between women, men and beasts. The faculty of ashlar Cathedral of Oviedo is known for having sizes and today could be described as pornography.

Fetiches and sadism and masochism

Conoco fetish
Almost all objects can be sexual fetish. Some, like the long black gloves, are very common, while others, such as hats women, are rare. A fetish literary classic is the fur coat, which became famous for the book by German writer von Sacher-Masoch (where the word "masochism") Venus in Furs (Venus dressed in skins).

It describes his fantasy of being dominated and whipped by a woman covered only by a fur coat. Even being so well known, there are few people who have this fantasy.

Sadism and masochism
Many rubber fetishists are devotees of what they call technically urolagnia. In these cases are used to different types of rain suits, as chubasqueros blacks and bright. Social mind, clubs focusing on interest in the skin that appear are more frequent than those organized around the rubber.

In northern Europe and the United States, the leather bars homosexuals are a phenomenon known. In general, fetishists heterosexuals seem to have more problems than homosexuals when it comes to finding mates or establish contacts with people who think alike, having to settle for the sexual fantasies and masturbation.

The temptation of fetishism

The criteria underlying the rules of normal sexual behavior vary and change with age, sex physical, social role or the historic moment. From this point of view our society has established certain arbitrary distinctions between variation, abnormality and perversion.

It is said that sexual behaviour is abnormal when it is not commonly practised, as well as noted sickly or pathological. While sexual perversion is considered dangerous to himself or society (sadism, masochism, paedophilia, rape and to a lesser extent, exhibitionism).

By contrast, the voyeurism and fetishism, are usually little or nothing dangerous, from the standpoint of aggression or threat, and could be considered only as parafilias. The fetishism would be considered serious if it is practiced only able to find satisfaction, emotional and sexual, or through certain practices fetishists.

Instead, it would be mild if the act is used as an introduction or fetish to change sexual practices. But as Eysenck said, "Sex and Personality," both very much like the Puritans libertine, frequently commit the same mistake. They come to believe that their sexual behaviour is the best possible, the single most satisfactory and acceptable.

Here we should implement the rule known; Freedom has its own limits in the other. Most people have heard of fetish of the feet, every day there are more people who say that "they will skin", sex boutiques around the world exposed clothing and other items allegedly exciting ...

These and some others are so-called fetish. The term "fetish" was used originally to describe the magic or religious objects found in some South American or African cultures. The meaning was extended in 1888, by Dr. Alfred Binet to refer to objects that can induce an intense sexual interest on one person.

The erotic game - technical so that you are excellent

After the appropriate stimulation of the erogenous fields that should be achieved by means of the dialogue from the caresses when starting all sexual relationship, you arrives at a level of psychosomatic bigger integration in which people of both spouses in a more radical way participate. This phase is the erotic game that settle down starting from the first caresses and that you boost the sexuality of the spouses until generally ending in the coitus. Practiced debit side correctly to understand two parts: during first o'clock it is limited to a minimum all contact with the genital feminine area, you be with the hand or with the penis. You are in charge of the spouse then of one of the erogenous fields that try to intensify your stimulation in a more and more concrete and urgent way.

The party of the second part of the erotic game, has to be summed up in the genital feminine field, still when the male is kissing the mouth or your couple's breasts simultaneously. The loving game should never last less than fifteen minutes. Even some are hardly beginning to experience an erection clitórica at the end of this time, and others require for it even more time. you are women that empoezan to only experience a sensation clitórica to the end of a half hour; they need these of a good technique of the erotic game to reduce in a considerable way this perìodo.
While you are a minimum period of loving game, you are not one maximum. As you it can perceive the woman's bottom-up excitation, a concrete symptom exists with it to judge the measure in that a woman is boosted and willing to the coitus. With he/she can have it the man, the surety that you won't pass to the sexual act before your partner is willing for him. This fact, many times you forget lamentable form, that which lead to an inadaptación sexual initial. Regarding the loving game, most of the women are shown more or less passive and silent, apart from the reactions that are usual when man and woman adjoin your bodies. Now then, all the women are willing to allow the male to boost them, not worrying sometimes too much about boosting themselves to the male. In fact the great extension of the erogenous feminine surfaces, forces the woman to concentrate mainly on themselves. Many times, the activity to which the woman surrenders is involuntary or you spread to raise your own excitation. If such a behavior ends up also exciting the male you are sometimes for pure match, unless you are made in a deliberate way to boost her in turn and in perfect match.

Not all the women respond from the same way to identical stimuli in the erotic game. Some that react intensely before the kisses can be excited quickly, maybe in only two minutes, to the being strongly hugged by the man, surrendering later to the kiss type that more he likes you. Other, leaving of this stimulus, they can also require that of a light movement genital cualdo the woman's extraneous organs they enter in contact with those of the man or when the feminine genital are rubbed against the male's thigh. You are others that, after a minute of such a contact, they will request the immediate input of the penis, wanting before the same one that the erotic game is carried out in the more intimate possible position. Other, more than for the buccal kiss, they are boosted by means of kisses and caresses apicados to your chests, thing that excite them ernormemente and you prepare them for the coitus in an immediate way.

Other women perhaps prefer a combination of kisses in the neck, the mouth and the bust, while the man's hands scan the waist, the hips and the external faces and interiors of the thighs, or they press the field smoothly above the knees. You are others that you/they even like the contact of the penis among the breasts. The very sensitive women erotically experience an irresistible one gives you of caressing the masculine organ vocally, going to him in such a sharp and direct way that he/she don't leave doubts regarding the force of the pulse. To other finally they like you to kiss them to him for sectors of your body beginning with the mouth and covering all the erogenous fields in órden, while she lies in kind of a longing ecstasy. No man should neglect this second phase of the erotic game since a good measure of the masculine excitation you are inspired by the manipulation of the woman's genital area.