To begin to be homosexual gay and your stages

Accepted you are for the up-to-date psychology that the homosexual trend begins to show in the preadolescencia (between the 10 and the 13 years), time in that the physical, psychological and social changes in the boy, impact especially in your development 'later.
Starting from here, the homosexual male will go by four phases, until the accept and compromise of your sexual trend. These phases are:

1ª PHASE OF SENSIBILITY (between 10 and 13 years):
The preadolescente feels "different" to the other children, without understanding the reason of this feeling. In many cases it is about ignoring it and you are not current that you produce suffering or you anguish.

2ª PHASE OF CONFUSION.(between 14 and 17 years):
The boy is fully aware of your attraction for the same sex, you Usually use mechanisms
to "ignore" and also to "reject" your homosexual pulses. You are frequent that this rejection is manifested with symptoms, as FEAR, ANGER, FEELING OF you ACCUSE, INSULATION, VIOLENCE.
The adolescent wants, but you don't dare to have relationship with another boy.
It usually profiles already the masculine favorite pattern.
You are frequent the "uptake" for a well-known (grade partner, professor, kindred etc) male.

3ª PHASE OF ASSUMED IDENTITY (starting from the 18 years):
The boy accepts your inclination, but maintaining your sexual activity secretly, being shown heterosexual to the object of not being rejected. You are a stage of great pressure and intimate conflict, with great risk of depressions and sometimes suicidal attempts.
The social, family, school or labor environment is usually quotidian strongly heterosexual and many manifestations they are clearly of character homófobas.

4ª PHASE OF COMPROMISE (in some cases):
The individual reveals your homosexual identity, accepting the social drawbacks that of they are derived it.
You usually take place when a family favorable environment exists.
Not overcoming the different phases bears risks that go from the school failure to the suicide attempt, going by "alternatives" as the promiscuity, the alcoholism, the drogodependencias and the prostitution.

Being the first three stages or phases, those but delicate for the hazards statements, you are ADVISABLE for all the adolescents with homosexual trend, the proximity or narrow contact with an adult (teacher or physician * of family preferably or any psychologist or psychologist) with the one that to be able to "download" your anguish and it can be helped in the superación of the phases mentioned in the case that the adolescent requires it.

The above-mentioned doesn't necessarily mean that the adolescent should count your private life if the professional in issue "forces" him to say the things since the professional should offer the trust and guarantees of confidentiality that the boy requires. You are necessary to highlight that as well as in the world exceptions are given in the sense that you are "not professionals morally enabled" and the (the) adolescent should be cautious (to). You are not about distrusting from all over the world, but a drop of distrust doesn't make bad...