Showing posts with label gestures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gestures. Show all posts

11/17/2008

Laughter - a gesture that heals

Do better ourselves is part of the growth of human beings. Each new day is imposing new obstacles that we must overcome to move forward in life. Many times, the passing was not in the quantity of books that we can find on a topic or hours of autoreflexión about the way we act.

Do better is to learn to laugh at ourselves, without censorship, providing a second chance. Mistakes, mistakes lead us to know further, namely to live with flaws and virtues.
It is scientifically proven that laughter can cure or relieve from heart disease until blood pressure. And not only improves health, but also beautifies us to the other.

In addition to the healing power of laughter at the physical level, psychologically helps relieve depression, states of anxiety and distress.

When you enter into a pit of depression, the ability to do something for personal gain is within oneself. We are what we think and what we demonstrated in each of our actions. Nothing justifies that a small altercation completely ruin the jomada. Nothing is final and there will always be a way to change it to do better. Life is full of opportunities. But change is imperative to open the mind, we prepare internally to receive good fortune.

Laughed when we started losing the fear, the muscles will loosen the front distiende and we can take away from the issue that concerns us.

Laughter makes lighter the load, the acceptance of our limitations and willingness everything he can. You may smile, even when everything seems to crumble. Here they left an exercise that can be put in place to help you through the smile at critical times.

* Close your eyes, register your whole body to mentally recognize the exact place where he is staying pain or concern.

* Find a way to that pain, something that it symbolizes: a stone, a thorn, a fire, a sandpaper.

* Bring much air into the area where it inhabits the concern, envuélvala with the air again.

* When you exhale feel that comes out of a concern inside and vanishes.

* Then start to jump, dance, sing, do morisquetas, practice faces rare, until it explodes into laughter. Laugh yourself, Look at that ridiculous pose no fears.

Accepted is overcome, but accepted with humor is much smarter. It speaks of an open-mindedness and a lifestyle that allows the person to grow spiritually and be happy.

10/27/2008

Gestures and attitudes - Body Language

GESTURES AND ATTITUDES - WHAT SHOULD BE DONE
Sometimes, by nerves or uncertainty, many people touch the clothes, as if lifted basuritas imagined. Anyone who makes this gesture, looks down and not to other people while you run that action.

It is one of the most common signs of disapproval, and when someone repeats many times the gesture indicates that you do not like the subject that is the case, although verbally express that he agreed with everything that was said. If you make this gesture, the person who interviewed believe that his attitude reveals antipathy, and it is very likely that the meeting ends in failure.

10/14/2008

The look seductive spell that

Look into the eyes of those who want to seduce. Then move the light very briefly on his mouth, his torso and later by the rest of his body, to finally return to knock the light in her eyes, and this has an impact of irresistible seduction.

This look should be reserved for when there is the certainty that the other person is also interested in you, otherwise it might intimidate, or it might seem an inappropriate gesture. If the other perceives that signal, it shall be returning a very similar gesture.

How to seduce the shy

If you want to create a climate of confidence, both men and women may resort to the language of the palms.

If you, while dialogue, shows his palms upward, this gesture will dissolve shyness or withdrawal of his interlocutor: it will show you as being a reliable, with which it is possible to maintain a dialogue intimate and welcoming.

Hair sexy to seduce

Try graceful and delicate movements with his head: Lie back hair, or quíteselo of the face, caring seem natural. One advantage of this gesture is that it allows her perfume comes easily to the face of his interlocutor.

Do not forget, then, perfume and remember before the meeting that the strategic points are sprayed to the wrists, chest, behind the knees, neck and the tips of your hair.

9/02/2008

How to find out if someone is lying

Test to a friend
Want to know if you lie? Make the test with some of your best friends. Try to find out any pegueña thing, something trivial, follows him and reaches disturbing enough to gue was somewhat tense and lie about it. Sácalo as a topic of conversation, indicating what follows is important for you quite the opposite to what you know gue.

It should emphasize, the push to deny committed situación.Una time gue what you've achieved, obsérvale during his argument. Do you notice how increases their tension? You will find gue, while his voice says, he denies subtle form of subtle and imperceptible to the head. It was also a few centimeters away from you, seeming to escape.

If you start to scratch under his nose, lip, rub with force the palms, as if slipping against each other, or if it takes hands into the pockets, especially with fists closed, you have no evidence verbale gue is telling you a lie. Fortunately you, in this case because it knew beforehand.

Kinesia - Body Language

The value of gestures
How many times have been in front of someone who has said one thing, but something has told us that we should not trustworthy right? Beyond verbal communication there is a more extensive language and unconscious just revealing what our real emotions: the gestures.

Learning to convey certain feelings through good use of body language is as important as knowing decipher those of our partners: Do we have what you're interested or bored fatally?, What we are told is a fact or maybe we are fooling?.

To find out if someone is not telling us the truth, only have to comply with caution. From the first contact, a handshake, and we can get an impression accurate.
The palm extended downwards indicates assertiveness, but also may be hiding something behind this gesture.

Is it true what we are going to count? We must meet many other signals to be able to judge. Too often when it says something that is not cree, loudly, for a small movement of denial with their heads. Is hardly noticeable and we must be very attentive to realize that. This is a spontaneous gesture and unrepeatable.

When they say a lie so premeditated, the emotional tension increases and this leads to a series of reactions unconscious, as a small contraction of the face and a sudden itching. So, take your hand to your nose and scratching area moustache with a finger is one of the first indications that we have to put on notice.
Other people will take the arm from the top and hold it, autoafirmación on what they're counting.

Also on repiqueteo finger on a table has a reading broader than a mere entertainment. The Roostberg professor at the University of Alabama, author of several studies on non-verbal communication and the language of gestures, ensures that this might mean uncertainty in any case before the doubt worth more wary.

If all the gestures of another, it appears that says something but at the same time recedes half step, or leans in a soft and natural rolling backward (or forward, if you're being denied), he himself has Delate . Smokers tend to draw a cigarette so restless, looking for an escape in snuff.
Notes in which direction expels smoke: upwards is a positive sign. Towards the bottom wants to indicate that clog want something, not letting what you see, blurred with smoke.

Surely you are not telling the truth. Anyway, do not want to interpret each of these signs separately. There must be several of them so that you feel sure your conclusion.

5/29/2008

Body language: the importance of gestures

The gestures are part of the body expression, and his message is often unconscious. The truth is that with them, not only demonstrated our way of thinking, but also inadvertently, develan many secrets from ourselves.

There are positive gestures, but also those that are in place to help express ourselves, we hurt.

Here is a list of what those gestures that help us, and those who harm our attitude.

Gestures negative:
- Failure to submit gestures, is already a highly negative, as it betrays the people more reserved and introverted.
- The shoulders shrinkage. Often translated as a state of anger content.
- The rebels shoulders. Denotes fear or indifference.
TOC-hair constantly reflects a high degree of insecurity.
- The shoulders encorvados are synonymous with oppression.
Cross-arms and legs represents a clear sign of isolation.
- Click fingers denotes total impatience.
- The abrupt movement were also negative because they give rise as a sign of frustration.
- A posture encogida transmitting a major depression.
- The body propelled forward is a symptom of aggressiveness and violence.
Touching an object-insistently or oneself also reflects insecurity.
- Drum with your fingers is a clear reflection of nervousness or boredom.
- Do not look in the eyes betrays fear or a high dose of insecurity.
- Move your hands too translates as nervousness, shyness or anxiety.

Gestures positive:
The wealth-gestural defines persons open and extroverted.
- The shoulders straight, are synonymous with ability to assume responsibilities.
- Skip an arm on the shoulders of another person, is interpreted as the expression of a feeling of pleasure, intimacy and love.
- Smiling, is a reflection of good humor, as well as pleasant feelings.
- The wrinkled face and intense gaze, indicating further reflection and concentration.
The affirmative-movements with the head reflects interest, and are a sign of agreement.
- The upright posture assumed security and authority.
The open-gestures are a symbol of an expansive personality and affectionate.