What to do if your child makes fun of others

It may be that our son is not the victim of history, but he who mocks others.
If this is a persistent and unreasonable attitude, we should analyze what is happening in the family dynamics or investigate whether any conflict of his inner world could be driven to ensañamiento with others.

The jealousy on the birth of a brother, disagreements among parents, school failure ... anguish that may occur later channelled through a verbal aggressive attitude.
If necessary, we should consult a psychologist.

The enigma of twins

The behavior of the four Genain twin sisters, born in the U.S. in 1930, drew the attention of psychiatrists at the time.
As a child, Hester broke light bulbs and was booted ios buttons; Nora gems during meals and put on their knees and elbows to bleed, with 22 years, Iris stopped working because he felt "trapped"; Myra was better, but are easily frightened and reassure her hard work.

The four were diagnosed with schizophrenia, which seemed to prove the importance of genetic factors, since the probability that the disorder affects four people chosen at random is 1 in 100 million.

Moreover, the degree of gravity was different in each one, which indicated the presence of other factors, but what?

The psychologist David Ro-senthal explained the differences in degree from family relationships, as Myra, the less sick, was the favorite of the mother, and Hester, the most serious, since girl was labeled as "bad".

For his part, the neuropsychologist Alian F. Mirsky discovered that the twins through tomography most affected also showed more abnormalities in their brain activity and that their frontal lobes, which act as a focal point for information, were weaker and less energy consuming than those of their sisters.

According Mirsky, Genain suffered varying degrees of injuries due to the order of their birth. Nora could suffer trauma as the first to pass through the uterus and Hester, most recently, by lack of oxygen.

The brain scanner in a recent case of twins, Elmore, proved that the ventricles of Steven, schizophrenic, had thicker tissue and neuro-nal thinner than the mentally healthy David.

How to expire and to win to the fear

We all feel fear, and you are not bad. Thanks to him, we outlive as specie, because your feature is the one of protecting us of the hazard. This fear, healthy and intelligent, avoids, for example that tell to a superior what we think really of him, or that we take a taxi managed by an intoxicated pipeline. On the other hand, the fear is an emotion loaded with diverse contents. This way, you are fears common to all, as the fear to the failure, to the rejection, to the forfeitures or the changes, and other, more personal. Other more communio times, the fear that we feel is not a normal and justified fear, but a fear that reponde to other lawsuits. In this sense, they are many those that are afraid in front of an imaginary threat or those that exaggerate the risks or the pressure that a status causes you. In these cases, although the threat is not actual, the fear unchains the organic same reactions: throbs, perspiration, tremor, jams, among other. This irrational fear is called by the psychologists "non adaptativo" because you are not useful to adapt to the environment, on the contrary, you lock us and you prevent to face in an appropriate way the challenges.

The first step to expire the fear is to accept that all we feel it and the second, to identify which this fear is, because not always and easy to realize it. In that case, the best thing is to center us in which the motivation of that fear can be: to be integrated in the group?, to make a lot of money? to achieve the objectives?. In feature of what motivate you, will be able to act on the lawsuit that provoke it.

To look at the fear to the face and to give you the place that deserve, is an important step so that you don't paralyze us. Our worst enemy is always the own mind, since we are able to imagine much worse things that the reality.

We offer you a financial year so that you can expire your fear:

You cut two ribbons of paper of about 15 cm. of width for 1 meter long. Support them on a table in a vertical and parallel way. You light a white candle and you meditate observing your flame on the four more intense desires in these moments for your life. I know punctual and note them in one of the paper ribbons, in vertical sense.
Then, in the parallel ribbon to the one that have written, writes a fear or anxiety associated to the corresponding desire.
You adjoin both ribbons making bare to the height of each desire with your respective fear. You think positively that you will overcome it.
To conclude, you burn the two ribbons with the flame of the candle in a remote place and you bury the ashes.
You will see as your fear you will disappear very soon.