10/02/2008

Your son fights with other children?

About five years, sometimes sooner, some guys show great aggressiveness toward the other small. This creates many problems for their parents, since they must cope with constant complaints, but is especially dangerous for those guys, who tend to stay isolated when I want most is affection.

Reflecting on the subject.
Parents should ask themselves if they will not be a bit "loose hand" (in these things usually spread by example). It also might tell them all the time: "As you keep bothering me give a steak," and thus give ideas to his son.

How to act
Every time a kid will stick to its peers, we must remove the group firmly, but without violence and with complete peace of mind. We will have to also say: "As you know not to play with your friends, you will have to play alone. You'll return when control you know." Once that calms down we will understand, with good profiles, which can not get angry at every turn, much less hitting.

The child of this age is very influential and is looking really nice and make friends. If he says that can not be contained or repeat, we are not discouraged. We must show our confidence that you learn to control and thus more fun and have friends. Praise helps.

As important or more that this is to recognize their progress. "Today we played very well," 'Look how well you spend now and how you want the other kids. " It is good to commend you for being friendly and chatty, and explain its advantages. Barely emerging from his self-centeredness, and sometimes has trouble adapting to the rules of the game shared.

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