Showing posts with label excitation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label excitation. Show all posts

4/05/2008

The feminine best sexual fantasies

1.- To have practical sexual that would be never able to take to the reality. This includes any thing practically, and you confirm the character liberador, lúdico that have the erotic fantasies. The women have this type of fantasy in more measure that the men. 28% of them gets excited this way.

2.- To that fantasy he/she continues to have you sex with a stranger. One of each five women (21%) fantasizes this way. In occasions it is about somebody well-known of the immediate environment of the dreamer one. But most of the times is somebody seen down the street few times, in the work, or in any quotidian other environment.

3.- 19% of the women, mainly the youngest, fantasize with which they are indebted to have sexual relationships for well-known or unknown. You are about fantasies, of getting excited by means of facts that can give illness for the status created to your surroundings (to be defenseless before the other one can be excitant for very resolutory many people in the actual life), but that doesn't involve a desire, neither direct neither constructive, of being violated or of causing violations.

4.- With more than a person of the opposite sex it occupies the fantasy of 18% of the women. And you are part of that necessity of imagining status that, probably, they would not be able to carry out in the actual life.

5.- A number bigger than heterosexual women that fantasize with having sexual relationships with somebody of the same sex of men: 11%. This happens this way because the women receive the same taste culturally that the men for the feminine beauty and they are able to admire her without mufflers homófobos.

6.- Finally, the fantasy that occupy the last place among the women is the one of forcing somebody to have sexual relationships without your consent or with a forced consent. This fantasy occupies to 3% of the women. You appear with less frequency that in the men, in fact for that general pattern of fantasizing feminine that suppose you turn as receptoras of the sexual activity exercised by others. In that context, to force third people to make something is almost outside of place, because you would demand to be more enabled than receptive.

3/17/2008

Frigidity - feminine Anerosia

You suit above all, to fix the meaning of the concept. We understand for frigidity the orgasm ullage in the woman during the normal coitus, that is to say vaginal and practiced with a heterosexual partner.

Non debit side to made a mistake the frigidity with the anafrodisia that are genitally the absolute ullage of libido in people developed, and it can be constitutional or induced by certain substances, such the camphor and your derivates. Likewise it is important to differentiate a relative frigidity, for example that of those women that you/they only reach the orgasm with the help of certain maneuvers: manipulation clitoridiana, stimulation of erogenous fields as the nipples, nape, area retroauricular, etc..

The most usual classification in the firgidez in the woman is the following one: the totally frigid women - auqellas that don't find neither pleasure neither excitation is in the coitus or in the loving game -, the relatively frigid women - able to achieve the orgasm but rarely and only when certain psychological conditions are completed -, and the passionate women - unable to satisfy your sexual necessities because during the loving preliminary and at once same game an imperious and insatiable necessity of enjoyment consumes them.

The frigidity is a very frequent dysfunction; the statistic figures are very variable and they oscillate between ten percent and fifty percent. Besides figures more or less accurate, the truly important thing is the repercussion that this dysfunction brings to the woman, so much inside the purely psychological órden as organic and functional.

The importance and repercussion inside the couple are considerable, and often it drives to a total failure of the same one, especially when the male doesn't possess the necessary preparedness to play your true part in the loving game, neither you feel bound to your couple for those loops psicoafectivos that supply with inducement when being expressed freely to the most perfect technique in many occasions.

You are fundamental that the man exact conscience of the difference gets paid between your sensations and those of your couple. The coitus in the woman is not only an act played on one hand of your body, the vagina; you are the sum from a series of phenomena, hormonal and psychic, to those that the man should lend the maximum carefulness, since when being completed the same ones it will be able to wake up in the woman the necessary climax to break the barrier of the frigidity.

Only in very strange occasions the lawsuits of frigidity in the woman are of organic type. Coitus that are painful for vaginismo, uterine prolapse, vaginal hardship, consistent to the troubleshooting of fissures happened in the childbirth, imperforate hymen, colpitis, vaginitis or other inflammatory local processes, among other; they can be at once lawsuit of nuisances of the coitus that he/she can and you should be corrected medically. Once achieved ésto and sposible that the frigidity persists, since both circumstances can associate but they don't go necessarily bound.

3/16/2008

Feminine orgasm - excitation in the woman

In general two orgasm types exist in the woman, and the man will worry about knowing to which your couple responds to know how to behave from an appropriate way to the same one.

The woman of erotic high excitation, possesses an orgasm type that some authors name sustained" "orgasm. In an orgasm of this character, the woman experiences a sensation of stable pleasure more or less stable that uin lasts certain period as if the crisis orgástica arrived to a certain height and you remained there indefinitely always producing a pleasant constant sensation. On the other hand, the woman of erotic low excitabilidad, possesses an orgasm class that call you punctual" "orgasm, because the sensation doesn't persist indefinitely, but rather you reach a summit, a climax, you remain there during a relatively short period and then it ceases abruptly.

All the women, be of the type orgástico that you/they are, they can be capable of more than an orgasm. Anyway, the first case is the strongest and the one that reach a more high summit. The summits of the other orgasms are more and more low until the male can no longer reproduce the sensation.

Finally, the man is who should stop your activity to allow that the sensation gets lost comletamente. Then it provokes it again until the woman requests another interrupt. You continues this way until the orgasm ends and with him the sexual relationship.

Cuiando the man uses additional estñimulos while you carry out the coitus, it usually happens that the flowance orgástica appears constant but with two or more peaks of pleasure. For example, he/she can be kissing your couple in the lips and to decide in a given moment to kiss you the breasts. If you make ésto, the woman you will reach a summit more high orgástica at this time and it can remain in that new height while that continues kissing you that field, falling at the previous level when you stop to make it. In the practice, lomejor is to discontinue this excitant summation and to resume it later some moments.

The punctual orgasm, is achieved generally mediating the genital or digital contact with the clitoris. After this orgasm, the clitoris loses sensibility momentarily. If the man maintains the friction of the clitoris once without pause reached the orgasm, the woman responds then with an involuntary and spastic series of shakeouts that you/they notice to the man that the orgasm has completed your path. These shakeouts only cease when you stop to be boosted the clitoris. A recess of one or two minutes, will allow to recover to the organism, after that which you can induce the second orgasm by means of stimulation clitórica. Once completed this, will also be followed by the same convulsions should make another pause next. Continuing with this procedure each pause becomes longer according to the number of obtained orgasms. Finally, any pause neither the subsequent stimulation will allow to the clitoris to undelete the sensibility. The excessive pressure exercised on the clitoris has the effect of paralyzing the mechanism neurodinámico of this field. The only opportunity in which you can exercise excessive pressure on the clitoris is forthwith before the orgasm. At this time, the woman wants the man to press you the clitoris with the pubis, with the finger or with the penis. Anyway, too much pressure will destroy the orgasm although the woman believes the opposite.