Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

10/21/2008

4 Tips wise to be happy!

If you want to prepare themselves to attract a person's life, or to rebuild their relationship, follow these 4 tips:

• Avoid complaints. If you live by becoming the victim, magnifies the problems and the other steals your energy, making you feel bad in your company.

• Thank you have. Learn to appreciate the affection that surrounds it. If you are trying to put their attention on the shortcomings, if you miss something.

• Is not outline a time getting to know someone. Adapt to change. A person who disappears from his life may be leaving the place that comes to true love.

• Be aware that love is not possessive nor confrontational. Leave aside the blame and recriminations. Couples are destroyed very easily when one party (or both) always looking for a culprit.

9/08/2008

The best time of sex

If you're very concerned about finding the right time for sex, a group of American scientists has concluded (after years of studies and surveys) that most men get more satisfactory orgasms, frequent and lasting around the 10.24 pm, with five minute margin before or after this time.

The variables were taken into account were the hormone levels per hour, the frequency of relations, lighting conditions and testimonials from more than 11,000 men within a year.

9/05/2008

Who use more condoms

Most users of condoms ios bring with them. In a survey conducted globally, it was discovered that those most likely to carry condoms are male, young and unmarried who do not have stable relationships (77 percent of cases). However, over half of people older than 40 years which made them the survey, said they also bear.

Among users, condoms leads 70 percent of men and 56 percent of women. The existing preconception about that women do not carry condoms has been shown to be false, although there is still a difference of 14 percent among users of male and female condoms.

The marital status of the person that seems to affect greatly the likelihood of carrying Concon. It is interesting to note that about 50 percent of married users always carry a condom.

7/07/2008

How to overcome the penalties of love

The unrequited love, relationships ending so unexpected, loving and disappointments that arise for various reasons, as a result bring sadness, discouragement, and of course, low self-esteem; situations more difficult to overcome that.

Those who suffer from penalties of love, are not being special or rare. Rather, this phenomenon is more common than any other, because we all lived sometime in our life.

The important thing is always able to overcome this conflict successfully. This is not avoid suffering, but to overcome without harming whom we love or have loved, and simultaneously, without hurting ourselves.

If you're going through a similar situation, you should bear in mind that it is possible to overcome this. The first thing you have to do is change the perspective with which we look at the situation.

Ending a relationship is certainly something very painful, but also represents a new beginning, but we do not know see it. So that being without a partner, can also generate a personal growth and transform all the bad we perceive at the moment so hard, promising new horizons, those who lead your energy, enthusiasm and creativity.

You should implement the self, this is a very simple and effective exercise, in which you have to concentrate and can help you feel better, nobody wants to feel bad.

The basis of the allegations is that if someone succeeds said certain thing, it has already taken a first step to understand, respond and seek appropriate behaviors.

In addition, there is an appeal to give psychological optimism, confidence and desire to live.

Try looking for a place in the open air if possible, away from noise or those material things you bring unnecessary memories can make you feel bad. Sit comfortably and relax. Breathe fresh air. If you have a mirror, then take a look and quiérete. Learn to valorarte and seeks the meaning of your life. Which is what makes good and what you need. You'll see how you will feel much better.

6/10/2008

Feelings that produces divorce

Having been confronted at the end of marriage, the next step that most people made is to focus and start again, alone, or with his new partner.

The fact find and put up a new home, learn to adapt to living in the new economic circumstances, to organize and standardize the visits to children and finding new interests and friendships, are in themselves important milestones on the road back toward normalcy. Next comes an important question: Now What?, As a first step to cope with the future. For some people divorced the future extends in front of them with little prospect of changes or improvements, even those who have initiated a new relationship are often victims of doubts and uncertainties particularly difficult to confess.

Feelings about the future are often quite contradictory. Although security stems from the continuation of planned and orderly domestic life is pleasant, in our imagination, at least, we want adventure, surprise and risk. Before, many people believed that only young people needed the dangers and adventure, hence that when she married, and especially to have children, establish an adult seriousness of which only had some limited possibility to escape the very rich and privileged. Here now our thoughts and experiences have evolved, and many people experience when they are unexpected changes in adulthood.

Although the anguish experienced at the end of a marriage by the ideas of rejection and betrayal seem unbearable at first, becoming more surprised the enormous resilience of the people, as well as its potential to take advantage of possible disasters and their struggle courageous to start over again. It is possible that the rejection, either at work or in marriage, to recognize and express aspects of oneself that had not been suspected before, or to whom they had not been given the opportunity to be developed.

4/14/2008

Believe liquid condom in spray!

You are a birth-control novel system that search to end with the problems of sizes.

Experts in German sexuality invented the new preservative in aerosol. The idea is to end with the problems for those that the men pass when using the preservatives.

The new "condom" will be in aerosol, this would allow that you don't have problems of sizes, as Jan explained to Vinzenz Krause, of the Institute for the Accessory of the condom.

The product was created to "help the men to have a sexual better and surer" life, Krause explained.

The expert, explained that you are about a product whose objective is that you have an effect of so single five seconds.

You are about a much more actual contraceptive, since it would be adjusted well to any size and you would not show up drift" problems.

"We are trying to develop the perfect condom for men that it are adjusted to penises of all the sizes", you said. "We are very serious", you added.

The birth-control new system is a container you package then in the one that the man should insert your penis in a vessel with latex to press a button, when making it, the penis is covered for a rubber condom, with that which are adjusted to any size.

"You work dewing latex from mouthpieces in all the sides", the expert affirmed and you added "The we call the procedure of 360 grades." You are something similar to when you wash you the car."

You are expected that the new condom is launched to the market in 2008, the same one will be available in several thicknesses and sizes and you will have an approximative value of 20 euros.

The designer of this novel system counted that this system was happened when studying numerous inconveninets that have the men to use condoms. What inspired it to Krause the aerosols that are used in medicine was on the other hand.

Krause said that you were happened the idea when you outlined the problems that had some men when using condoms, and that you inspired by the plasters in aerosol that currently are used the medicine.

The liquid preservative

The commercialization was approved in China of a novel product that in aerosol or in gel it impedes pregnancies and you protect of infections and infections

The Ministry of Health and the pharmaceutical Administration in Beijing authorized the launching in the market of the country of the first liquid condom.

Your name is PCN or Preservative Criptomórfico Nanométrico of Silver and you are applied inside the vagina in form of foam.

You are formed a physical membrane able to protect of not wanted pregnancies, besides infections and infections and to serve as lubricant.

You make sure that it can act with effectiveness during a long period of time without altering your natural balance and you help to maintain the hygiene.

According to the experts the preservative liquidates you delete pathogen gynecological agents as staphylococcuss, candid or bacillus of the coliforma, for your enabled ingredient that are the Chloride of Benzalkonium.

You have besides your presentation in foam in aerosol another container like you are gel, water soluble.

You are about an innovation where the woman will be the one in charge of using the preservative one and at the moment, alone you are in the Chinese market, although one informs that you could arrive in Europe the next year.
As "manufacturing" preservatives to your size...

Do you have the "terrible" problem of not to find preservative of your size for that need them extremely big?. Because here they teach you the solution to all your problems... What you/they don't assure is that you have the same effectiveness that the normal ones...

I believe that you are not pajera the suitable term, but somebody that know how to take care when you enjoy a sex moment.

I add you a text that I wrote for another place, I will obviate the hyphen.

TYPES OF PRESERVATIVES
- ANATOMIC
. They adapt well to the penis, allowing more sensibility in the man.
- SPERMICIDES
They provide a surer protection before the not wanted pregnancies, when taking spermicide.
- FINE EXTRA
. So that not they are not noted when you use them.
- STRONG EXTRA
. They are very safe before possible breaks. They are the recommended ones to practice, for example, anal sex.
- HIPOALERGÉNICOS
You are people that don't tolerate or they are allergic to the latex and the normal preservatives produce you irritations. These are fabricated with poliuretano.
- TEXTURADOS OR CORRUGATIONS
They have protuberances in the part of you were (even some inside) to give more pleasure to the woman and some also to the man.

FOR SIZES
You are worth, you are worth, we already know that the size doesn't import. But let us be realistic: if we can choose (you can) the preservative to be more comfortable (both, but mainly you)... why not to make it? Let us leave the prejudices to a side... You can find preservative:
- BIG EXTRA
. They are bigger and roomier
(you seem that I speak of a car, jeje), what will allow a more comfortable relationship to those... "privileged."

- SMALL EXTRA.
They are a little narrower and shorter, to guarantee the comfort to the boys that want a preservative that you/they are adjusted totally to your penis.

SPECIAL PRESERVATIVES

- FLAVORS
You are preservatives of different flavors
(strawberry, mentions, banana, even some of chocolate!!! jajaja). They usually sell for drives.
- COLOR.
You are them of all types, even with drawings. They usually sell for drives.
- PRESERVATIVE FEMENIMOS
.They are some poliuretano cases that it are adjusted to the walls of the vagina, avoiding the illnesses of sexual transmission and the pregnancy, when preventing that the semen arrives to the ovum.

You can also make for example custom orders of preservatives to give them in farewells of single / to, parties, or with publicity. You give you the design and they make you a test in a printing, and they send it to you with a budget without commitment none.
They are used in places of
meetings for example "swingers",
where the ciudado is primordial and you cannot participate without using it.

Society
Preservatives for all
The poliuretano and the animal membranes are the answer for the allergic ones to the latex that you/they represent from the 1 to the population's 3% in general The labs they recognize the limitations in the effectiveness of the condom xxx

"The feminine one is the less demanded" one to "Expand possibilities you are important" "A specific place was necessary"
The size yes that import

Of colors, of flavors, corrugations, groceries, perfumed, with lubricant, of latex, of poliuretano, of animal membrane, for men, for women, with spermicide, with benzocaina, to delay the ejaculation... The world of the preservatives is an entire universe that he/she offer a comprehensive fan of finite, but so comprehensive possibilities that one could speak of the 'preservative to the letter' and until 'to measure', according to the necessities and preferences of each who.

This way, the allergic ones to the latex that you/they represent from a 1 to the population's 3% in general, according to the vice-president of the Association of Allergic to the Latex of Extremadura, Pablo Torrico, finds in the poliuretano or in the animal membranes a solution to your problem.

Leaving to a side merely the preferences 'personal', the main and alcoholatura requirement of the consumers of this product is the protection. The new laboratory studies indicate that nowadays the condoms not protect of a pregnancy wanted until in range of 87% to 96%. With regard to HIV or to AIDS, the obtained protection is of approximately 87% so that the condom doesn't delete the hazard completely of contracting the virus, still when yes you reduce it, and as for other illnesses of sexual (ETS) transmission as the gonorrhea, the clamydia and the trichomoniasis also offers a protection high-level.

Material question

The material with which a preservative is made, if you represent an important difference since as you are this, you will determine a different degree of protection. Basically there are three types: the latex (rubber) facts, those of poliuretano and those of animal membrane.

Those of latex are the most actual and durable, according to the physician, Berta María Martin Cabrejas, expert in Obstetrics and Gynecology, "if they are used in the correct way, they are also the most common." They protect as much against the pregnancy as against the illnesses of sexual transmission. However, for those allergic people to the material involve a possibility to develop itch or burn sensation before the contact with the material.

The poliuretano preservative, suitable for population's sector, you also prevent the pregnancy and most of ETS. The drawback is that the material is something thicker and quite more expensive.

Those of animal membrane don't offer protection some of ETS neither of AIDS, but if they avoid in an effective way the pregnancies, for what you/they are not recommended unless you have true surety that you is in a completely monogamous relationship and unless you have been proven by means of physician-examinations that it are free of illnesses and of any virus type.

Specialized places

But to be able to choose, you are to have places specialized in those that the possibilities allow 'to expand horizons' beyond the conventional thing. Badajoz has your own condonería. You are about an exclusive store, pioneer in the area that pick up great number of the models and the most popular marks in the market. Your owner, the extremeña Eva Berzos, began almost by chance in the business, since in start he/she had thought to create a company related with the furniture. Far from that first initiative and after taking a look in Internet, Eva reached the conclusion that a comprehensive one existed 'market potential' for this field and last summer you inaugurated 'Eva's apple.'

There they know the existence of the different materials when manufacturing preservatives, but they assure that so much the poliuretano, as the animal membranes, they are very not very demanded. Also, the differences in the prices are of the most significant: "If a box of 12 conventional preservatives, manufactured in latex, they cost a stocking of about 8 euros in the market, a package of five drives in poliuretano, of the same mark, would cost 18 euros" approximately, Eva points that add that most of people not even know that an alternative exists to the latex.

Another type of varieties is more popular in the market. "The grained ones inside and grooved on the outside they are very in fashion. With regard to the color, you are of present time the black that are right now" the demanded, you count us Eva that assure that the best publicity, at the moment, you are being 'the mouth to mouth.'

The profile of the objective public of this business type is of the most varied thing. "The same thing comes young people of 15 or 16 years that people of 70 and all have very clear what you/they want and what you/they search. What change is what you/they buy", you affirm Eva that are very happy with the result of your business.

And you are that, 'the taste are in the variety' like you say the refranero. To encourage the 'creativity' and to stimulate the imagination goes to multiply the possibilities.

Concluding:

YOU ARE NO LONGER EXCUSES FOR THE ONE
AMUSING SEX AND INSURANCE!!!

Size
The human penis can show up a wide variety of sizes. However, in the popular culture it is considered that the size of the penis is related with the level of each male's (manliness) masculinity. Even this way, numerous studios have been able to demonstrate that the size of the penis is not directly related with the masculinity of a male, neither neither with your reproductive capacity.

Although the results vary in each studio, you are believed that the size of the penis erecto is, on the average, of approximately 14.5 cm (5.7 inches) of length and of approximately 12.7 perimeter cm (5 inches). In accordance with a survey carried out with a group of 1,500 males whose result indicated that the size of the penis average was of 15 cm (5.9 inches) of long for 12.7 perimeter cm (5 inches), the most common length was of 14.6 cm (5.7 inches), and 78 percent of the males they have penises erectos from among 13.3 and 17.1 cm (5.25. 6.75 inches). The same survey revealed that 13.3 cm (5.25 inches) was the most common perimeter, and that by 78.4 percent of the cases the males showed up an erection from among 12.1 and 14 cm (4.7. 5.5 inches).

Technique for the measurement of the length of the penis
The penis erecto is measured above the trunk of the penis, supporting the rule against the symphysis pubis, what allow a more precise measurement. The obese male should push the stomach toward inside, until achieving that the rule supports against the bone pubiano.

The size of the penis and the ethnic origin
While you are commonly accepted that physical differences exist between the races or groups of ethnic (for example, the color of the eyes, the texture of the hair, the form of the nose, the height or the width of the hip) different origin, the topic of the variation of the size of the penis has been a taboo because a readout could be made that involved that an ethnic specific group is "higher" or "inferior" to another. The question of the correlation between the size of the penis and the ethnic origin is therefore very polemic, and you have not settled down definitively.

Intellectual Franz Fanon covers this topic in Black Skin, White Mask ('black Skin, white mask', 1952), where you lean toward the opinion that the positive supposed correlation between the big penises and the African ascending line is a myth. On the other hand, a statistical entitled studio Race, Evolution, and Behavior: To Life History Perspective ('Race, evolution and behavior: A perspective of the history of the life', 1995) you defend the opposed opinion.

Allen's rule and the rule of Bergmann propose that the warmblooded animals in (including the mammalias) warmer climates spread to show up a more high cooking surface-volume, to help to the dissipation of the heat.

The cultural questions involved in the relationship between the size of the penis and the ethnic origin are complex. For example, in the American history, the African slaves were often perceived as sexual animals, according to that illustrated by the main character of the novel The invisible man, of Ralph Ellison.

So far, you are not definitive tests that the ethnic origin and the size of the penis are related, and all the relational studios that have been carried out have been rejected by the scientific community, due to your ullage of methodological rigor or to the absence of demonstrable data.

4/11/2008

Vaginal Surgery

The aesthetic surgery of the feminine extraneous genital organs, includes a number of surgical procedures designed to improve your aspect and capability.

Why the intervention?
This surgery has bigger accept and broadcast day by day for your excellent results, and a growing number of women they are requesting it to improve your intimate sensation and to improve the aspect of your extraneous genital. Many women that request this surgery consider that to reduce the size or the form of your vagina or genital extraneous organs allow that, as much them as your couples, reach the sexual complete satisfaction.

Techniques employees
The commonly requested procedures are reduction in value of lips (vulvoplastia or labioplastia) and operations of reduction in value of the vaginal (vaginoplastia) channel. Other procedures include the lipoescultura of the Mount of Venus, the reinjección of fat in the biggest lips to rejuvenate them and to give a younger aspect to these areas, retirement or reduction in value of the skin around the clitoris to improve sensibility of the clitoris, and the reconstruction of the hymen for cultural reasons.

The reduction in value of Labial is technical designed to diminish the size and the grade of protuberance of the lips smaller than (interior) the vagina. The most communio reason so that the women request this operation you are because the lips are too big and not very aesthetic. Some women indicate that the enhanced size of your lips makes them more patent with wrapped clothes or they feel nuisances making such sports as the cycling. A considerable number also manifests difficulty in the penetration.

The procedure is relatively bare, deleting an area of the lips by means of a variety of incisions and it can be realized with local anaesthesia. The precise location of the scar is very important to prevent the retraction of the scar throughout the edge of the lips.
The adjusting vaginal operations are requested by some women that are felt that your vagina has been too comprehensive after childbirth or with age, being at once in little satisfaction sexual so much own as of your couple. The procedure is carried out by means of the allocation of sutures in the introito together with the resection of the excess of vaginal mucosa and the wrap of the muscles of the vaginal later wall.

You anesthetize
The procedure is realized generally low you anesthetize peridural or general for specialist gynecologists.
Lipoescultura of the Mount of Venus can be an isolated procedure or to be carried out conjointly with the lipoescultura of the abdomen or of the thighs. The aspect of the Mount of Venus is enhanced improving your definition.
In contrast, the injections of fat of the Mount of Venus or the biggest lips fill these structures, giving you a younger aspect.

The retirement of the cuff of the skin around the clitoris, is carried out to expose the clitoris and to make it more sensitive. However, you are little information on result, since the perception of the difference is very variable of patient to patient.

As with many aspects of the human anatomy, you are a comprehensive variety in ways, sizes and aspects of the genital feminine organs that are inside the borders of the normal thing. Before experiencing any surgery, you are important to determine if you are really a problem with the genital organs or if another solution would be more recommended.

Retrieval
During the first 5 or 6 weeks are contraindicated the sexual relationships, and to the end of 10 days the wound is usually healed.

Am I good candidate for a vaginal rejuvenecimiento?
The women that can end up developing a forfeiture of the vaginal shade after the pregnancies or with the age they are appropriate to be practiced this surgery. The constriction of the vagina or vaginal reduction in value, it can also be indicated in menopausal women, or that they have suffered uterus cancer. Also the patients that suffer from involuntary forfeiture of urination when coughing, to sneeze, to laugh, to exercise or when having sexual relationships, they are good candidates being able to correct your urinary incontinence and at the same time to improve and to "raise the sexual" bonus.

4/10/2008

Virtual infidelity and your hazards

Internet has transformed into a new way of gestating loving relationships that, although they cannot involve the physical contact - at least initially -, they don't stop in and of itself to be extremely loaded with sexual content.

Indeed, the "cases" for Internet usually involve the same classes of pansies and emotions that any other relationship, that which include secrets, fantasies, enthusiasm, frustrations, negation, rationalization, etc., and in and of itself same you also have the potential of being devastating for other relationships them to stay at the same time.

A typical case

The typical case of many people in couple, is to happen more and more on-line time, with the purpose of having interactions that provide you a "outlet" of the daily reality.

With the time, the world of fantasy that show up in Internet can make you see to the true world as something monotonous and boring, in which are impossible to know the enormous quantity of intimacies that people can admit by means of Internet.

Once you are somebody interesting on-line, they enter the best side in your legal capacity, as well as they make it your parties. Both begin to share intimacies, hopes, fears, or fantasies, that which them Preposition even more, and you make the fantasies on the other person to be still more intense and deeper. Naturally, the love is born and with him a necessity every time bigger than actual interaction.

By the way, all these changes don't happen inadvertent for the respective ones even that begin to suspect or to want to know on the "friends" that have your husband / to in Internet. And although the cybernauts deny or rationalize your on-line activity, your couples begin to suspect every day more and to be threatened.

But these people continue ignoring, or directly denying, the impact that have all this in your couples. Anyway, these last begin to more thoroughly know the status and they are desolated and betrayed.

However, the cybernauts are safe that, as you have not had "true" sex, anything should import, but the certain thing is that they are even this way more near your virtual friends than of your own couple.

And a point arrives in the one that are irresistible to meet with the friend / to virtual in person, because these people feel that they have known your "partners of the soul", and that they seem book credit been made "the one for the other" one, for what would be worthwhile to imperil everything for them.

But the actual person is very different to the virtual one, and to the end of one short run you/he/she is patent that the relationship won't work. However, the life of these people has never changed a way imagined. And you are that since they stopped to pay carefulness to your actual couple, and the same one was stagnating, while that I magnify replacement for which you/they neither bet you have given fruits.

Some reflections

Creates or not, these cases are more common of what many believe, and without doubts they can be a terminus a quo to make general different observations.

In the first place, you would be good to know that all the virtual new connections are usually touching, but you are more than possible that are not in particular the person who make the difference. You happen that, although you are not perceived, the enthusiasm usually has more than to do with the relationship "class" that with the specific feelings that the actual person would generate.

But also, in all the new relationships, be or not for Internet, people enter the best side of itself, that which don't mean that indeed they are this way the whole time, in the daily life.

With too much frequency we think of the love like those vertiginous and intense feelings that take place in front of the dazzle, but although all this can be a fantastic test, much of the intensity of the feelings is simply inherent to the same novelty.

In fact, once a "dream" love should open the way to all the responsibilities of the daily life in a long term relationship, the feelings will follow the transition toward the proximate deepest stages in the love, or desparecerán. For that reason, to compare the feelings experienced in a new relationship with the feelings that stay with the couple of long time ago, you are as comparing apples with oranges.

As for the impact in the relationship with the married couple, you are very communio that these cybernauts underestimate in a start the relationship for Internet to consider that it cannot really be a case, since there not even is not involved sex. But often, these relationships also have the potential of being truly devastating for the couple, the same as if you double-crossed him to him with a sexual relationship.

In fact, most of people that he/she discover that your couples double-crossed them sexually with another person, don't feel so annoying for the sexual slip in yes but for the book credit fact been double-crossed and swindled in your good faith.

By the way, they are many those that think that one can only speak of double-cross when a total involved lie exists. But a more exact definition of an ullage of honesty in a relationship could be to "retain pertinent" information, that is to say to hide deliberately something to the couple, as the fact of being maintaining a very intimate relationship with some mediating person Internet. This will also create an emotional distance that will enter a problem difficult to expire.

Although you are not easy to suit in the definition of what could be a case for Internet, something that yes you are very clear you are that when a couple a wound or a threat, are for that you will be perceiving that you are in game something more than a bare entertainment. And when they injure the feelings, but this is ignored or underrated, you can be evidencing an ullage of care toward the couple that could be even much more pernicious that the virtual same relationship.

The certain thing is that the relationships for Internet in married people have many chances of causing a fissure or total destruction of the primary relationships, no matter how much that is not the original intention. And seeing it retrospectively, many people that your couples ended up having actual relationships with those people that knew virtually, recognize that they would putrefy or they would owe book credit known in what you/they entered, but that they were as dazzled by the novelty, although they didn't want to have a relationship neither to break your couple.

For that reason, if you are about beginning to maintain relationships in Internet, more than to wonder if that is correct, you should wonder if you are intelligent. In many opportunities, when searching something better for your lives, or a way to break up with the monotonicity, they can be very gratifying things, but in other cases it can still end with less.

This way, unless you is in a terminal crisis with the couple, the ideal thing to begin to revive the interior passion would be think the couple's aspects again, to determine other roads that could take to that both members of the same one feel better and more alive, but always rooted in the reality before in the virtualidad or the fantasy.

A beginning of virtual romance, you could serve then like a warning signal that they need to improve things in the own couple. This should be the focus of carefulness, knowing that any forfeiture that are experienced when a virtual relationship concludes, you are in fact the forfeiture of a fantasy, and not of something actual, contrary to a couple of years.

The hazards of the virtual infidelity

The ciberinfieles every time they are more, but the services that he/she offer the network to discover them also grow.

Eric has girlfriend, but a fond one is admitted to visit the chats to know new people. And although you swear to be in love with your girl, never ullage to your virtual appointments with your 'ciberconquistas.' "For me it is only a game. You have a good time me to know people for this mean. I believe that you really show yourself like you are, although you are who are not sincere. Not I believe that this means to be unfaithful", you admit.

The emergence of internet, your extents, as well as the anonimity and the privacy in which can be browsed have generated social interesting phenomena, and one of the most important is the one named 'ciberinfidelidad', a new term that mean to establish a relationship extramarital, in most of the cases without being involved physically with the umpire, although you are also who yes you take the relationship to the physical plan, and that you stay through electronic mails and instant messages.

This status has generated cybernetic new services, among those that the compound numbers stand out 'virtual detectives', for cachar to the infidel and, on the other hand, other agencies that you/they offer alibis so that the infidels are not discovered
In accordance with experts in the matter, the network is a mean that facilitate to double-cross the couple. This scans it to depth the French publication In bed with the Web: Internet, him nouvel adulterates (In the bed with the web: Internet, the new criminal conversation), written by Loic Roche and Yannick Chatelain, in which are also exposed that more and more French they succumb to the virtual relationships.

The first of the authors are a physician in psychology and expert in the impact of the new technologies in the man, the second an expert in the network.

Both highlight that forums and chats are visited mainly by men. Although also for women like Carolina who although you have couple, from time to time visit the chats for 'to check' the creativity of the males. "In the personal thing I like chatear with unknown because both have that to toss to walk the genius when courting. You are from to the most romantic type until to the most flattering. In an occasion I was about to do me with somebody with who took already months chateando, but later I thought that the interesting of the relationship is that he is ignored for me, so I preferred to maintain this way" it, you admitted.
According to the writers, when being wired to internet is "very plain to establish virtual (most of the times under a dummy identity) relationships, a state of permanent search is believed and of dependence."

To know different people through the network has transformed into a lifestyle, because you "give the illusion afrodisíaca of being almighty, you are something similar to what happen with the alcohol in the parties of adolescents, it works as a desinhibidor", Loic Roche says.

The hazards of the virtual infidelity (you leave II)

In love cybernetic:

The consequences of this phenomenon are countless and many even unsuspected. In the tribunals of United States, for example, the electronic infidelity is already a causal of divorce.

And you are that for the victims of the double-cross, you are not so complicated to check the 'cybernetic criminal conversation', because you are easy to procure copies of the mails that swap those 'ciberamantes.'

In France, like in many other countries, every day 25 thousand new people register in Meetic, the biggest place of encounters in Europe that count with more than of 11 million members.

More investigations

Other publications like that of the American siquiatra Esther Gwinnell, titled The love in internet, outlines that the love among cybernauts has the inducement of helping an individual to overcome the solitude.

Nevertheless, the author also exposes the pathologies, conflicts and risks to those that face people that chatean, because in the network they traffic all type of specimens.

"From donjuanes and accomplished chameleons, until hermits, shy, obsesos and mythomaniac professionals, so an online relationship could complicate enough the life", concludes.

New services

As consequence of this phenomenon, in the Internet services have also been created that offer 'to cover' the infidelities for not running the risk of being more communio descubiertoLo are to receive by mail or for telephone an invitation to a congress, correspondent to the house or company, confirming the care to this event.

It can even be organized a loving encounter that seem a labor subject.

The other side of the currency is those 'virtual detectives' whose number every day you grow who are contracted by husbands and jealous wives to investigate your couple's cybernetic activities and to investigate about your secret desires and hidden perversions... for not mentioning the existence of a relationship in form.

4/09/2008

How to maintain the love at distance

Nowadays, they are many the status of couples that have to be distanced by diverse reasons. The number of couples that you/they live this problem type, is increased day by day with running of the time. They are many the lawsuits so that ésto happens. Many times the work makes that, in this world globalizado, trips to the interior of your country and other times to the exterior. The studios also make that you travel, for example for maters or post grades, distancing you of your couple. But the most usual thing nowadays, is the fact that they exist more and more even that one knows for internet, falling in love and having to take drastic desiciones when formalizing.

To cause or to secure the loving link among people that should remain withdrawn physically by issues of geographical distance, we offer you a ritual. Make it every time that you believe it necessary and you will see the results.

Procedure:
1 - you get a loadstone in sheet, and you snip two hearts of the same size, 4cm for 4cm.
2 - you write with red enamel of nails in the reverse of the hearts the name of the couple's member.
3 - then, paste them with the faced names and a paper among mean that he/she say: "Our love is stronger than the distance."
4 - later, you decorate the front from the heart to your taste, and you send this loadstone for match to your lover or dear. In the envelope, you write with invisible (that it can be, for example, lemon juice) ink "San Valentine", and when closing the sóbre you invoke this way it: "Winged San Valentine, binds with your unbeatable arrow the hearts separated by the distance."

Always keep in mind that, the moorings are very actual if you are a strong link of love among the couple.

4/05/2008

The feminine best sexual fantasies

1.- To have practical sexual that would be never able to take to the reality. This includes any thing practically, and you confirm the character liberador, lúdico that have the erotic fantasies. The women have this type of fantasy in more measure that the men. 28% of them gets excited this way.

2.- To that fantasy he/she continues to have you sex with a stranger. One of each five women (21%) fantasizes this way. In occasions it is about somebody well-known of the immediate environment of the dreamer one. But most of the times is somebody seen down the street few times, in the work, or in any quotidian other environment.

3.- 19% of the women, mainly the youngest, fantasize with which they are indebted to have sexual relationships for well-known or unknown. You are about fantasies, of getting excited by means of facts that can give illness for the status created to your surroundings (to be defenseless before the other one can be excitant for very resolutory many people in the actual life), but that doesn't involve a desire, neither direct neither constructive, of being violated or of causing violations.

4.- With more than a person of the opposite sex it occupies the fantasy of 18% of the women. And you are part of that necessity of imagining status that, probably, they would not be able to carry out in the actual life.

5.- A number bigger than heterosexual women that fantasize with having sexual relationships with somebody of the same sex of men: 11%. This happens this way because the women receive the same taste culturally that the men for the feminine beauty and they are able to admire her without mufflers homófobos.

6.- Finally, the fantasy that occupy the last place among the women is the one of forcing somebody to have sexual relationships without your consent or with a forced consent. This fantasy occupies to 3% of the women. You appear with less frequency that in the men, in fact for that general pattern of fantasizing feminine that suppose you turn as receptoras of the sexual activity exercised by others. In that context, to force third people to make something is almost outside of place, because you would demand to be more enabled than receptive.

4/03/2008

Sex with Robots - sexual Androids

At least it is what the investigators of "European say Robotics Research Network" who (Euron) predict that in proximate five years the progress in robotics will be so important that we will have robots with an intellectual development comparable to the human and even higher, the robots according to the organism will have all the imaginable uses for the included man as sexual partners.

Apparently he/she has had so much impact some advance investigations in the related to the sex with robots that a moral upset polemic has loosened with regard to the topic.
Not I doubt that a future is possible to have sex with robots or machines robotizadas what I wonder you are like they will make the boys to satisfy your desires without being hurt (I refer physically) because honestly I don't see any "technical" problem in machines for women, but for boys I believe that you are enough but complicated.

The Pron makes well to the health - Studios check it

To potentialize the pleasure in couple's relationships or to feed the imagination and the eroticism in solitude, the pornography was, you are and you will be a tool of great utility. But scientific diverse studios carried out recently revealed that, also, the pron can have "a positive influence in the life of people." More than 90% of the Australian pornography consumers they assured that you "improved your lives" after experiencing with material XXX. During the investigation, carried out by the physician's team Alan McKee, most of the interviewees pointed out that the pornography made you "take bigger conscience of the pleasure of your couples, at the same time that you made them feel less critical with regard to your physical attributes or them." They also said that they were depressed and they got sick less.

Another formless .elaborado for scientific Neil Malamuth and Martin Hald, of the University of Los Angeles. you raised the opinion of hundred of Danish that you/they assured that the pron usage "improved your sexual life, your knowledge you have more than enough sex, your attitudes on the opposed genus and until your quality of life in general." Malamuth sustained that "the pornography can only be detrimental for those people with aggressive legal capacity. But in most of the men negative" goods don't appear.

Some years ago, Berl Kutchinsky, criminologist of the University of Copenhagen, demonstrated that the quantity of sexual crimes diminished in Danish lands when the control lifted the restrictions on the pornography.

From your theory, named "of the outlet" valve, Kutchinsky sustained that "the pornography available fund decompresses sexual dangerous" pulses. However, other experts criticize the conclusions of these works. They affirm that the exhibition to material pron causes that "the men and the women are less satisfied with your couples, support less the marriage, have more interest in sex free of feelings and they promulgate the menial and passive" woman's physique. The psychologist Edward Donnerstein, of the University of Wisconsin, found that an exhibition reiterated to the pornography can take to "attitudes and antisocial" behaviors. On the other hand, investigating Dolf Zillman and Jennings Bryant measured the impact that have in the sexual practices of a group of men the material consumption hardcore. "Who saw the biggest quantity in pornography they had much more high estimations of the incidence of the oral sex, the anal sex, the sex grupal and the sadomasoquismo that the other entrants of the studio", concluded.

3/23/2008

Erotic dreams - the most common symbols

Next, we will detail the symbols and the most common status that you/they appear in the dreams. They are striped for alphabetical órden to facilitate your readout.

You remember whenever the meaning that here give you, you are general, for that that, since all dream refers in particular to the life of a person, you should be reinterpreted according to the context peculiar of each individual.

Sexual act, to have relationships in the dream: When one dreams that you have a sexual act I get same or with another person, this event it should not be simplified in the carnal mere union. In fact these dreams involve the psychological union, the psychic integration with what the person that appear in the dream means for us at level incinsciente and in the actual life. On the other hand, he/she can also have, a compensatory commission. This way, a person that don't have sexual relationships habitually, usually dreams more often of them, like a form of downloading your libido. The important thing will be the way in which this relationship has place and if you take place or non satisfaction. The relationships with people of the same sex don't speak of the supposed ho9mosexualidad of the dreaming one, but of a bigger integration I get same, or, of the lump-sum appropriation of the person's features with which unite in the report onírico.

Criminal conversation: You could be index that the fellow is unsatisfied with the sexual life that take with your couple, as well as of pent-up desires that he cannot manifest or to carry out with her. If you are your couple who make the criminal conversation in the dream, this could manifest doubts on the own capacity to receive love or to produce desire in the other one.

Hair, hair or corporal body hair, your drop or increment: The hair simbioliza the vital force, the energy with which count the person and your specific, more spiritual or higher, or more sexual and more primitive meaning, should understand each other according to the type and the color of the hair. This way, the soft one and blonde represents the individual's spirituality, while the black abundant hair or the corporal body hair have bigger relationship with the most primitive or sexual aspects. To dream of the cut or the drop of the hair, therefore, you suppose a physical or spiritual aggression that the person suffers and you are index of forfeiture of vitality and energy.

Nakedness, to feel shame of being naked: Against what can seem, he/she doesn't have a meaning sexual intríncecamente. As they are the features of the nude in the dream, it can indicate a status of innocence, purity and even, of idefensión; or bienj, to have a more erotic character and lewd.

Teeth: They are very common in the dreams and nightmares in those that lose the teeth, have them slack or they are fallen. The teeth, the same as the hair, they represent the energy and the vitality, auqnue shows a sexual and aggressive bigger imposition that the hair. This fear is related with the fear to the castration of the sex organs or the forfeiture of sexual vitality in general. Also, indefensión since the teeth are a you arm primitive of attack.

Jealousies: The jealousies and the envy that can feel regarding somebody in the dreams, speak to each other of the sensation of debility of the dreaming one regarding the love that receive, and you are a signal of drop you deem and of insecurity in oneself.

To make love in public: To dream that one makes love in some public place, you indicate a strong necessity to express the sexuality. If such an act causes shame, it can be pointing out fear to that our sexual desires are known.

Impotence: You not only mean sexually fear to be incompetent, but rather a deeper and more general fear, the one of losing to be able to and vitality or energy.

Orgy: The fact of dreaming that one participates in an orgy, indicates that you are very dissenting with your sexual life and that this needs an important change. If one is in couple, you are index clear of dissatisfaction.

You punish: The meaning is opposed, as you are man or woman. If you are a man, you indicate doubts regarding your sexuality or conflicts in this aspect. If you are woman, on the contrary, you indicate a force and vitality sexual notables.

Nipple: Since the breasts are related with the maternity, if you are a man who dream of nipples, you will reflect the contact desire with the mother while if you are a woman, a possible pregnancy or eldeseo of being pregnant.

12/22/2007

Sexual Curiosities

30% of the Spanish youths points out that he/she only knows about sex what reads in the books and magazines. Other 30% procures its friends' data and 11%, of its parents.

Among a 8 and 10% of the queries that are carried out to Internet from Europe they take constructive the word sex. Such and like it points out a studio of the University of Pittsburg, only six years ago, 25% of the searches had some relationship with the sex; today, on the other hand, the favorite topics are the electronic commerce and those related with the services.
The women suffer more for love. The Italian therapist Walter Riso, attributes it "to the feminine biggest sensibility, but also to that the feminist revolution didn't take I get an affective revolution, the understanding on the part of the woman that it can be alone affectively and that he/she doesn't have to love to be carried out."

When the music speaks of loving relationships, the idea that prevails is that the woman gives and the man receives. But that is not everything: 83% of the feminine singers insists in that idea, in front of "only" 55% of the men.

90% of the German has faked an orgasm at some time, most of them to please its couple.

The labor schedule he/she reduces the possibilities to exit and to find the perfect man. So much that one of each three western adults from among 25 and 49 years he/she doesn't have couple.


Among the victims of the labor pursuit in Spain more women than men are counted. According to the report Cisneros on this topic, directed by Iñaki Piñuel, the pursuit originates before the worker's negative to waive in the face of the blackmail or the servility, or for claim of its labor rights, for envy or, simply, for sexism.

The women have more memory than the men, as it concludes a studio of the University of Florida. The report points out, also that they are specially skilled when remembering the names of people.

Of purchases. The Spaniards spend 68% of their budget in clothes, shoes and linen; 36,8% in leisure and 22,5% in cosmetics. They only dedicate to the saving 2,5% of their money.
. for the Network. 63% of those who buy in the network is women whose half age is of 45 years.

According to a work that Medical has published Journal, the risk of mortality can decrease in 50% among those males that enjoy a sexual active life.

In the Welsh city of Caerphily, 918 males from among 45 and 59 years they showed up voluntary to this pioneer experiences. All they were submitted to a medical complete checkup and an interview in the one that you/they were asked with all frequency maintained sexual relationships. The answer to these questions varied from never until every day.

Next, during ten years, the investigators analyzed the health and the cases of mortality in this group of men. When it concluded this period of investigation, the data gathered by these scientists were truly surprising.

The more discharge was the <> of the entrants, more probabilities had of being healthy and alive.

The oldest manuals about sexuality were written about 500 years ago in China.

The first sex-shop of the history settled in the German city of Flensburg in 1962. Thirty years later, the signature has 650 employees and a volume of businesses of 8.000 million pesetas currently a year.

The condoms king size (supertalla) are experiencing a boom of sales in many countries. One of each four men complains that he finds too tight condoms uncomfortable during the sexual activity.

In a survey carried out in the Institute Kinsey in 1990, in which a question was included with respect to the size of the penis, the males believed that the mean size was from "20 to 30 cm" while the women deemed that "less than 10." The correct fact is from 12 to 18 cm.

At least three women - an American, a Briton and an Australian - they maintain that they have had sexual relationships with infants of the external space.

The World Organization of the Health (OMS) called the carefulness in 1973 on the formation ullage it has more than enough people's sexuality enabled to run the educational programas. Their feature consisted on facilitating information, to offer therapies, to form educational and to advise where it was necessary. He/she should have their appearance in the services of maternal-infantile care, centers of family planning, of mental health and community health. Of the multitude of necessities and social lawsuits he/she is derived the necessary specialization of the sexólogo like: sexual consultant, expert in sexual pedagogy, expert in sexual therapy and investigator. As in our country there are not ruled studios of sexología, the societies sexológicas have gone imparting diverse formation paths.

"From where does the verb follar come?"
He/she comes from the word Latin follicare (to blow), come in turn of follis (bellows). Follicare has given to our tongue other words like folgar, to not work and it. The verb follar, in its origin, meant to play or to relax; later he/she passed to refer to the sexual act. To refer to the same thing we also use to fornicate, word that comes from fornices, the bridges under those that the Roman prostitutes used to locate awaiting clients.