Alterations of development

One of the things that most concerns parents is that their son walk with their feet inward or outward. The former is much more prevalent than the latter and is related to a provision of the hip different (forward), but absolutely normal, forcing the child to rotate the feet when walking. Generally, the hip is well positioned to puberty, and then corrects the child spontaneously how to tread.

Walk with your feet toward the outside is often a symptom of change in the hip, and to remedy the problem is first necessary to tackle the cause. This disorder is usually far less than the previous one. It is normal that the child turn a bit when your feet start to walk. As yet has no integrated system of balance in the brain, is looking for a way of stepping on to provide him with security. Do not worry: the solution comes with time.

The record of visits to the trauma it has the flatfoot. Now the parents consult more, and that's fine, but they often worry about things that are fixed as the child grows. Sometimes taking babies for four months because they have no bridge, where the norm is just that, the arch is filled with fat.

In fact, unless the disorder exists at birth, or if the small has a hip problem, do not worry until the child has not completed three years, when the foot is beginning to acquire its final structure . In the view of many specialists, there is a tendency to prescribe templates to correct defects, such as flat feet are normal until the foot has not been developed.

More important is to use templates to wear proper footwear. The parents claimed. They prefer that their children will indicate the use of templates to tell them that they should not do anything because the children, for the moment, have a normal foot. Stay more relaxed. What needs to change is the philosophy of footwear. Not everything on the market is right and the first task of parents is to learn to choose well.

The modesty of children

For the kids, nudity is something natural. At first they produce pleasure and means of freeing the poop and pee. Run and swim naked in a group offers no difficulty: the infant body is shown without any obstacle.

But as his psyche evolves, the child is "taking over" out of your body is a sexual body and is acquiring a "know" about sexuality. To this is added to know the social learning. Does not lack for parents to teach it. The mere existence shows that people do not walk naked down the street, so it must be dealt with something private and intimate.

Even liberal parents, whose behavior towards the desmudez is totally natural, they will see with astonishment that some day your son or your daughter shut the door of the room bathroom or unwilling to strip naked on the beach.

Of course, we must respect this new modesty, although it may seem exaggerated. It is as if the first child will need a good understanding of the basic rule: "Being naked in front of strangers is taboo," before they can accept exceptions. A few years later and you'll see the nakedness with less shame, until at puberty experience a second phase of modesty.

All parents must follow the rules of modest setting their children, so they will see that your body belongs to them alone and that nobody can look at or touch it without your consent.

The first menstruation

After nearly two years of changes initiated pubertal (telarca), appear the first menstruation or menarche. The hormones stimulate the growth of the uterus to increase the size of its inner layer, called "endometrium", which is removed during the menstrual bleeding.

It is very important that the mother speaks of the subject with her daughter not to take the unprepared. And avoid passing an unpleasant moment. The young lady must be prepared for that, in case of travel or just when you're in school, have the elements necessary to deal with the situation assumed as something absolutely normal.

There will surely be scared, doubt, worry, joy, a multitude of feelings, many of them ambivalent and contradictory-that will enable him to reassert on the way to adulthood.

For any doubt, should consult with the doctor of adolescents: if necessary, he will lead the young to a gynecologist. During the first two years after the onset of menarche, there may be irregularities or even absence of menstruation for several months. This is normal and should not be cause for concern.

The first menstruation

The first is called menarche and menstruation occurs during the development of advanced process of puberty. He also agreed with the advanced stages of breast development, a simultaneous slowdown in the pace of growth.

The maturation of the hypothalamic-pituitary axis, regulates and controls body growth hormone route, the secondary sexual characters: breast development, the appearance of hair and axillary pubiano, and the distribution of body fat.

The term sexual maturation is defined as the set of morphological and physiological changes that take place during puberty.

Conforms an adult body capable of procreation. To check the normality of this process, we evaluated the menarche and the development of secondary sexual characters, with the parameters of weight and stature, and with the size of muscle mass.

During this period, the womb of the teenager already has a similar size to that of a woman, but this is not related to the onset of fertility, which happens in the next two years.

The first menstrual cycles tend to be anovulatory, ie, the ovary does not release eggs can be fertilized.

The first menstrual cycles are irregular, since the hormone system has not yet fully matured. The regularity will be established within three years of menarche.

In 15% of the cases, the alterations persist and need to be studied for further treatment.

The crisis of puberty

Normally, the body changes experienced by children during puberty usually elapse of a completely normal way. However, it is the emotional ups and downs caused by this development which more headaches to give young people and, of course, to their parents.

Teenagers can be very "difficult". The changes in their bodies makes them feel insecure and confused. Showing irritable, withdrawn, and suffered continuous ups and downs of humor.

However, sometimes the problem is not the kids, but in the reactions of adults. Some parents become unsafe before the arrival of adolescence for their children and see them as some rivals within the home. Instead of taking into account their views, they want to maintain their own decision-making power.

This attitude does not help at all. It is preferable to be more open, showing more interest in them by the clothes they like, for his friends ... And this is not suddenly get to hear rock music all day, but to show more sympathy for their interests and their hobbies. In families in which there is really a dialogue, parents and children living puberty smoothly.

Changes in puberty in adolescents

The age of great change. Puberty, a period of change, is a particularly difficult stage for the kids. The more parents know the subject, may better understand their children.

Have left childhood, but they still have a long and sometimes difficult path to reach maturity. They are in full time physical, mental and emotional. The male and female hormones, which are necessary for children to become men and women, operating at full capacity. Her body is transformed, and often are not sufficiently prepared for this.

Starting the way:
The onset of puberty varies between eleven and thirteen years in girls and thirteen and fifteen in children. In these, the first sign is the growth of the breasts and the appearance of pubic hair. A little later, at about twelve, the majority have their first menstruation, or menarche.

At this early stage is ladies in the so-called estirón, characteristic of puberty. The result is the typical image of the gawky and awkward teenager who
gives the impression of not knowing what to do with his arms and legs, too big for the rest of the body.
The boys enter puberty between one and two years later than them.

First they grow testes and penis, and you see the pubic hair. Then will come the first voice changes, the first spontaneous ejaculations, especially during sleep and, later, the development of the beard.
Many of them are affected in this age acne, which is responsible for testosterone. This male hormone stimulates the sebaceous glands of the skin and makes the hair is always greasy and face full of granite.

Development plan:
These figures are purely indicative, since puberty passes in each child differently. In most cases, the onset of adolescence depends on hereditary predisposition. Thus, parents worried because her daughter fourteen years is the only of its kind that is not the rule, should try to remember: They probably also had a late development.

But when a child's development differs totally from the normal periods, it is possible that something is not right. Psychological problems, family problems or even a rejection of becoming a larger, making the process can not start or interrupted abruptly. It also depends on health. A serious illness in children late, sometimes change.

Another reason may be the sport. The intensive training, we refer to competitive sport involves a stress-so great that often directly affects children's development.

Contact mental extrasensorial between mothers and babies

All babies remain a powerful mental contact with their mothers, being able to interact with them parasensorialmente until a certain age, about puberty.

Indeed, many investigations underscore the fact that mothers can establish a particular communication with their children even before birth. The dialogue between the
woman and fetus in her womb leading communication is a very special and, according to the experts' conclusions, very useful for the further development of small.

When the child has already reached the world, this relationship continues actively, but with the growth of your child will gradually losing, even though they always continue to exist extrasensoriales ties between parents and children.

There are many specific instances in the archives of the study of this topic. Some speak of mothers who gave orders telepathic their children, for example, concentrating and sending the phrase "do not cry" or "duérmete", without being next to them.
We can also mention the case of a father who, before a domestic accident in which her daughter had been beaten and seemed to have been unconscious, with all its forces thought:

"Wake up and see you're well, which has only been a shock!", After which the girl reacted back in it, as if nothing had happened.

A mother tells her case: "My son saw how the wind pushed his sailboat in a pond, and so far from the shore, without which it could do nothing to recover. The child appeared to be concentrated and very serious, noted how the barquito, defying the laws of physics and strength of the wind, was approaching towards the edge so that he could pick it up.
When they had at hand did nothing and let the wind take it further inwards, when she wanted to return the sailboat, was limited to giving orders and mentally, once again, against all odds, turned towards the sailboat the shore, with the wind blowing against them.

Asked my son how he had done and, with the ingenuity of its five years, merely replied that he spoke with his barquito and ordered him to return to obey him, he was his master. And sailboat obviously abided his order. "

Why children are ashamed?

The feeling of modesty wakes up in the boys about five years. Suddenly, are ashamed of their own nakedness and do not want to be seen without clothes. not even by their parents or siblings.

This is a normal phase, which means that it has reached a certain level of evolution: it is now recognized himself as a person separate and distinct from the others and can imagine how they see the others.

In addition, feels his own body and wants to decide who may look or touch. During, we must respect his modesty, not to mock him or force him to appear naked against his will.
Usually something passenger, forwards after a few years and reappears at puberty.

Travestismo

You be defined as the desire that a person manifests of wanting to be shown using the clothes characteristic of the opposite sex. The term, etimológicamente, means "share of dressing contrarily." The travestistas is people that experience the vivencia of being considered victims of a cruel error, as consequence of possessing a feminine legal capacity in a masculine body, or vice versa. They feel a vastly intense desire to take clothes characteristic of the other sex, and this way they are about being identified with the sex that you/they believe to possess or vivenciar. They want to be considered by the society like what you/they are not, to call you with another name and to be in charge of of other tasks: they find clothes of your sex an intolerable disguise and the occupations of the own sex a weighted sample you load.

The travestista imagines that you go against your nature to have to live as man or I eat woman, according to the cases, without never reaching a possibility to follow the spontaneous inclinations of your "me." You carry you to it a continuing state of pressure that can lead to neurotic conflicts more or less intense and psiblemente to suicide attempts. When the travestistas takes feminine clothes and they show up as women, they experience ralajación, balance and inspiration. The same thing happens to the travestistas. The origins of the travestismo are to search them, in most of the cases, in the first childhood: an intense desire to be girl, a preference to play with dolls, blended sympathy with envy toward the girls, and the satisfaction that produced you pnerse clothes of girls.

The years of puberty they don't offer change in them, although they end up realizing your abnormal state. The youth will separate your friends being eradicated, remote and solitary. The ullage of understanding that find you will make be isolated of your partners and friends; you will hide your trends and you will determine unsuccessfully to dominate them. In the successive thing, the sensation of being a woman that you/they have to behave as a homnre will constitute the factor that dominate everything in the patient's life.

In the prmeros years of your mature life he/she can try to expire your trend by means of a five pesetas masculine work, and often it ends up carrying out the sexual normal contact and to marry. Some that only constitute a limited number, attempt in vain to be treated by means of hormonal treatment. But your inclination will be impossible to correct and they will have to abort the fight. You are others that resign and they satisfy your trends travestistas in the solitude, hiding of all. Other they decide to face with the society: they want that people you of for informed of your right to live as women. You seem difficult to affirm with surety until what age the trends travestistas persist, but you are tests that the problem stays I live in almost sixty year-old men: they would be willing to even sacrifice what were with such of living some few years like women, as age women.

In the travestismo there are This way identification processes with the sex that you/they seek to imitate, in the man travestista, you are an irresistible trend to represent the feminine paper. If we wonder the why of this inclination, we can find an answer in an authentic process of the male's afeminamiento, due to a purely educational problem and psicodinámico. In your identification with the femeneidad don't save any effort, and many times they undergo during months and years dangerous treatments, as implants, implants, injectable of female hormones in high dose, and other. The spectacular and quick result of these treatments is, from a start, the modification of the hormonal balance, and of there he/she spends to the progressive disappearance of the facial body hair, to the development of the mammary (some attestations mammas appear where before there was a male breast and flat) glands, the voice is tuned and they change the sexual vivencias.

Puberty - Alterations in the Feminine Organism

To refer to this point inside the puberty, we will begin mentioning the classes of the same one.
The precocious puberty is the premature awakening of the gónadas (sexual glands, in this case ovaries), because of a bigger activity of the lobe previous of the hypophysis that he/she enters in feature before time. Other lawsuits that can produce it are the tumors of ovaries or of the adrenal glands. The precocious puberty shows as much in the sex characteristics as in the constitution. He/she appears the body hair pubiano prematurely, a generalized feminización takes place and also an increment of the bone growth.
Then the girl is more developed of those than you/he/she corresponds to her age, except in the psychic part whose development usually is not parallel to the somatic one and and it adjusts in general to the age.

On the other hand, the late puberty is characterized to have, as the term to her allocated the it indicates, a lag that takes place in the beginning of the operation gonadal, for decrease of the system activity diencefalohipofisario. They also exist other lawsuits, which can be for example, that of ovarian (ullage of ovaries) impotence, the ovarian (I develop bad of the gónadas, or Turner syndrome) disgenesia, among other.

It is considered that late when reached puberty exists the fifteen years, they don't show up symptoms of maturation of the sex characteristics. The late puberty talks medically to sexual feminine hormones, being obtained very good results.

And of here in more, diverse alterations of the genital feminine cycle can take place during the puberty like they are: the delay in the appearance of the first menstruation (primary amenorrhea), quite frequent; short cycles, inferior to the normal (polimenorreas) duration; or on the contrary, long cycles, of duration higher to the normal (oligomenorrheae) thing from five to six weeks and abnormal; excess of the quantity of menstrual (menorragia) secretion; you haemorrhage juvenile, without chronological relationship with the menstrual period.

It is considered that primary amenorrhea exists when after the eighteen years the menarche has not taken place. In the first place, this abnormality can be due to a family hereditary (endocrine illness) tare that would constitute a well-known antecedent in such a case. If the characteristic nuisances of the menstrual cycle exist it is signal that ovarian feature exists and then the gynecological exam can reveal malformations of the vagina or of the uterus. Also, in a general exam, they can be manifestations pluriglandulares (that is to say, of other glands), as dwarfism, dystrophy adiposogenital, etc..

The lawsuits of the other alterations can be very varied and in general., when dysfunctions of this class exist, it is absolutely necessary to consult to the gynecologist.