11/29/2007

Sex in the First Appointment

Decades behind, the feminine world was divided in three categories: discreet, liberal and crazy. If a woman went to bed with a man in the first appointment I/you/he/she was a crazy one, if she made it after some exits I/you/he/she was liberal, and if she made it after years of courtship, era a decorous girl. Today in day, these terms were shortening and among a crazy one, a liberal
and a discreet one is only a difference of time that could oscillate between the 15 or 20 minutes...
Although still, some women continue being very prejudiced and they continue wondering what the man of them will think if they are as liberal as to have sex in the first appointment.
Will to worry about the what an one say, or to enjoy the pleasure of the moment?
What you/they show the facts is that, more than the feminine public's fourth three parts he/she decides to go to bed in the first appointment, wondering then if there will be a second time or being hit to the telephone waiting the call of the million.
The reasons that impel to have sex in the first encounter are many and of different nature. Some women are guided by what you/they feel in that moment, other they analyze it like a mere biological necessity, some plan to conquer to the man in that way, and the great majority they don't want to be as silly. Although all these reasons are very diverse, the important thing is to make it when the moment is opportune for both and that is not chosen neither it is thought, he/she only feels.
That that yes it is certain, it is that the sex in the first appointment, changes the destination of the relationship totally, either positive or negatively.
Two people cannot sometimes follow meetings in the couple because they are only compatible in the bed or just the opposite. In other occasions the help to be known more, even to know the treatment toward the other one.
The reality is that there is not anything of bad in going to bed in the first encounter or in anyone of the following ones, provided each one knows what is making and what is necessary to expect from its own acts.
If what looks for is simply a “history”, it is not necessary to wait more than that and to enjoy the moment.
It is very common that the woman doesn't arrive to the orgasm in that situation, what many times produce insecurities at personal level, questioning the capacity to feel pleasure.
All ésto is because the woman's sexual answer is slower than that of the man, and from the feminine anatomy it is not possible to compete with a man that, to be you only undress, it can achieve an erection and excitement.
Certain women think that the best thing is to make them wait to generate bigger respect and to be more valued. Others decide to enjoy the moment, to surrender to the pleasure and when enjoying to feel free. Be an or another variant, the main thing it is to make the decision you consent and happy.

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