4/23/2008

Is the love, mental or sensorial?

The enamoramiento is nurtured of sensorial printouts, of your reconstruction in the mind and in the brain. That is to say, the enamoramiento is psychological, affording us deep feelings and emotions and, at the same time, you are material, concrete, that is to say that you also move in the level of the neurotransmitters and of the chemical answers of the brain.

An American famous sexólogo, Alfred Kinsey, established that in sexual matter the men are stimulated visually preferably more than the women, and that the preemptive way of feminine stimulation is tactile. this statement was partially proven from your conclusion until the present time. Today you are accepted that if a man looks at a woman and you identify in her some features that have a matter meant in your erotic imagination, you will be able to end up falling in love in such a way that arrive to the passion that are a love desbrdante and irrational. Although in lighter grades, the enamoramiento always has an I mount of illogical. In him, you not only govern the autocratic brain, but the democratic senses.

In the women, you are the physical contact the one that primarily unchains the sex-erotic stimulus. You are always to discover, which the visual feminine excitation will be if the women had been maids with the freedom of visual perception and the permits to look that have the males.

Neither they are same the starting points between a male and a girl from the beginning of your family education. To a boy your dad stimulates it to look at pretty" "girls or to celebrate the feminine beauty, you handcuff and included mother. To the girls, from small they are taught to not looking directly at a man to the eyes, and this way when they grow, they won't be exposed to that your look understands each other like an invitation to consummate a sexual scene. Previously, the standards transmitted to the women express that you are not correct to get excited sexually without being in love and without perspectives of consolidating a couple for the marriage. As long as, to the males they are stimulated to the conquest of the fiancés, low risk of being judged strange or homosexual, according to you name it the science.

The certain thing is that if the women get excited more more by means of the caresses and the males by means of the view, we know today that depend it of how your sensibility was developed from the standards of homelike lactation, the personal tests that are initially sensorial, loaded with moving meanings and they constitute the maps of the love (all them developed since the human infant is born).

But, the look in yes, you reveal the most intimate feelings. The hypocritical big actors, aware of the value of the look, they can learn how to simulate or to show to your inclination, what you/they want to transmit to the other ones to produce the searched effect. The big lovers reflect in the pupils the fire of your passion.

Now then, visible, you are to add you the tact, the smell, the hearing and the taste. When people fall in love, the brain segregates neurotransmisiones that are hormones that energize and they transform your behavior. This way one absolutely beautiful and desirable vé to who love, wanting cmpartir with that person all the moments of the life. That sensation remains until the physiologic changes attenuate the inherent restlessness to all enamoramiento. With luck, the passionate feeling becomes love.

The senses work like in a fruitful dialogue, being given place each other, to have your moment of glory in the ceremony of the love. In the coitus, the tact prevails on the view. Many women and men make love with the closed eyes but they caress or they hold the being's body that they love. The looked woman delights in pleasing your couple and you/he/she can regulate the penetration at the same time that you stop it with the hands if you abrupt or painful restitution. The aromas that emanate of the body of the couple's member that enjoy to the unison, bind them more intensely. The wailings and sounds of the love, increase the sexual pleasure. Puera sensorial democracy.

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