The disappointment of childbirth

But while hardly talk about it, there are also plenty of mothers who did not feel seized by the excitement to meet their outbreaks.
A fact quite normal, according to specialists. Why? The baby was born that has nothing to do with who has dreamed. Indeed, the flesh and blood is neither smiles nor strong. It is weeping, plaintiff has wrinkles and its ugly traits that are more harmonious.

The reality often turns into a disappointment tip that a sharp downturn to maternal self-esteem. Many times, when he saw this creature so young and weak, the esteem of women (in psychological terms, Narcicista) was damaged because it was unable to have that child dreamed.

What happens when the child is premature or suffers a disease? Specialists note that, if the newborn is brought to the incubator, as is often the case with those born prematurely, the mother is so afraid of losing that avoids maintain close contact with him. This should not be interpreted as a lack of love for the newborn, but as a defense mechanism.

In case of incurable disease, such as Down syndrome, a sense of failure experienced by the mother is very big. But, once accepted the problem,
frustration gives way to a strong protective instinct and a desire to fight impressive.

For several years now, the trend of midwives, gynecologists and neonatologists is that both the father and mother have contact as soon as possible with the newborn. It is known that in the first days of life will lay the foundation for the future relationship of parent and child.

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