11/27/2008

Jealousy between siblings - How to avoid them?

Not just for the dethroned prince is disconcerting to the new situation, it is also true for Mom and Dad. Move from three to be four is not only a question of quantity: the folks will have to go understanding that the arrival of another child not only alters routines and spaces, but he brings a variety of needs and desires to be compatible with the of the family and with those of the firstborn.

Restructure affective spaces within each parent will allow the first and second child find what is their place inside and outside the family. Give everyone what you need at the right time, understand what happens, be able to translate their desires, their fears and fantasies decoding is one of the most complex tasks of the job of parents. Able to offer everyone the right thing is a learning that the children are asking us to do on an ongoing basis.

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