To begin to be homosexual gay and your stages

Accepted you are for the up-to-date psychology that the homosexual trend begins to show in the preadolescencia (between the 10 and the 13 years), time in that the physical, psychological and social changes in the boy, impact especially in your development 'later.
Starting from here, the homosexual male will go by four phases, until the accept and compromise of your sexual trend. These phases are:

1ª PHASE OF SENSIBILITY (between 10 and 13 years):
The preadolescente feels "different" to the other children, without understanding the reason of this feeling. In many cases it is about ignoring it and you are not current that you produce suffering or you anguish.

2ª PHASE OF CONFUSION.(between 14 and 17 years):
The boy is fully aware of your attraction for the same sex, you Usually use mechanisms
to "ignore" and also to "reject" your homosexual pulses. You are frequent that this rejection is manifested with symptoms, as FEAR, ANGER, FEELING OF you ACCUSE, INSULATION, VIOLENCE.
The adolescent wants, but you don't dare to have relationship with another boy.
It usually profiles already the masculine favorite pattern.
You are frequent the "uptake" for a well-known (grade partner, professor, kindred etc) male.

3ª PHASE OF ASSUMED IDENTITY (starting from the 18 years):
The boy accepts your inclination, but maintaining your sexual activity secretly, being shown heterosexual to the object of not being rejected. You are a stage of great pressure and intimate conflict, with great risk of depressions and sometimes suicidal attempts.
The social, family, school or labor environment is usually quotidian strongly heterosexual and many manifestations they are clearly of character homófobas.

4ª PHASE OF COMPROMISE (in some cases):
The individual reveals your homosexual identity, accepting the social drawbacks that of they are derived it.
You usually take place when a family favorable environment exists.
Not overcoming the different phases bears risks that go from the school failure to the suicide attempt, going by "alternatives" as the promiscuity, the alcoholism, the drogodependencias and the prostitution.

Being the first three stages or phases, those but delicate for the hazards statements, you are ADVISABLE for all the adolescents with homosexual trend, the proximity or narrow contact with an adult (teacher or physician * of family preferably or any psychologist or psychologist) with the one that to be able to "download" your anguish and it can be helped in the superación of the phases mentioned in the case that the adolescent requires it.

The above-mentioned doesn't necessarily mean that the adolescent should count your private life if the professional in issue "forces" him to say the things since the professional should offer the trust and guarantees of confidentiality that the boy requires. You are necessary to highlight that as well as in the world exceptions are given in the sense that you are "not professionals morally enabled" and the (the) adolescent should be cautious (to). You are not about distrusting from all over the world, but a drop of distrust doesn't make bad...

The Pregnancy - Changes in the Woman's Body

All the modifications that are generated in the woman's body during the pregnancy, are due to the influence of the hormones.

In the genital, the uterus is which suffers bigger quantity of modifications. Their volume quintuples passing of the 30 or 40 grams of habitual weight, to 1 200 or 1 500 grams. At the end of the third month it is appraised, for palpation of the stomach that stands out above the pubic bone, and in the fifth month it already reaches the navel. The ovaries maintain during the whole gestation the yellow body, remainder, I eat it is already known, of the old cavity that contained the ovum and later field producer of hormones. The vagina and the vulva more vascularizadas are, acquiring many times a coloration blued by the appearance of veins and even of varicose dilations, and it is observed an increase of their secretions or flow that, in start, it can be considered normal.

The mammas increase of size. It exists in them a pressure or swelling that many times are usually a precocious sign of pregnancy. The nipple is more and more pigmented and it is more erectile, flanked of an extensive and dark aureole. In the last weeks, a liquid usually segregates more or less opaque, called calostro that is very useful for the nutrition of the first days of the newly born one.

The abdominal walls suffer a progressive distension, and for repeated pregnancies or for a pregnancy of exaggerated volume, he/she takes place a failure of the abdominal muscles and the appearance, after the childbirth, of the stomach pendulum and of streaks that are consequence of the break of the fibers of this wall.

The remainder of the body suffers the consequences of the pregnancy equally. The weight usually raises about 10 kilograms during the nine months, with a rhythm from 1 to 2 kilograms every month to leave quarter delo. Bigger increases can indicate retention of fat and it dilutes, with the following hazards that it is necessary to avoid.

At the end of the pregnancy the heart increases lightly of size and he/she can give place to throbs or blasts, without transcendency, and that they disappear after the childbirth, because it is not about any injury, but of a transitory state. Changes can also appear in the voice and increase of the oxygen consumption.

The digestive system is also altered. It is frequent the appetite ullage in the first months and their increase later. Nauseas, vomits and constipation also appear. The gums bleed easily. The digestion and in general the whole intestine, they have a delayed feature. It raises the urination excretion when the urinary dilated channels being, that which favors the appearance of infections in this apparatus and he/she leaves as sequel many times, after the childbirth, urination incontinence and cystocele, that is to say, the urinary dilated bladder and drop. It is of current observation the increase of pigmentation in the skin, especially in the forehead, cheeks and nose, what constitutes the mask or cloasma gravídico. The genital, the areolas and the white line of the abdomen are also pigmented that becomes in moraine. Finally the psyche doesn't vary with the pregnancy, and if he/she makes it, it is only slightly, raising the irritability, the trend the dream, the instability, the depressive boxs encumber they are always boxs preexistentes that the pregnancy shows.