Overcoming Shyness

Do not hide.
Others flee only worsen your anxiety. Faced with a difficult situation may seem natural to want to dodge, but it is not the right attitude.

Try again and again.
Although the first time you try to integrate encourage you not go all that well, you should know that a new attempt will be better, and better yet a third.

Permítete not be perfect.
No need to thank all of humanity. Nobody is waiting for you 24 hours for the judge.

Avoid generalities.
Such phrases as "I'm not going to the party why I do not know what I'm going to talk to people." Each occasion is particularly special, unique: the live well, learn to
enjoy.

How to seduce the shy

If you want to create a climate of confidence, both men and women may resort to the language of the palms.

If you, while dialogue, shows his palms upward, this gesture will dissolve shyness or withdrawal of his interlocutor: it will show you as being a reliable, with which it is possible to maintain a dialogue intimate and welcoming.

Why children are ashamed?

The feeling of modesty wakes up in the boys about five years. Suddenly, are ashamed of their own nakedness and do not want to be seen without clothes. not even by their parents or siblings.

This is a normal phase, which means that it has reached a certain level of evolution: it is now recognized himself as a person separate and distinct from the others and can imagine how they see the others.

In addition, feels his own body and wants to decide who may look or touch. During, we must respect his modesty, not to mock him or force him to appear naked against his will.
Usually something passenger, forwards after a few years and reappears at puberty.

Adolescence

Adolescence is considered a period of change for excellence in the lives of human beings. This is a time of conflict, which can be more suggestive of life. A middle between childhood and maturity, this period is often a very complicated stage.

When the child's development occurs in a harmonious family and a society that accepts him, he relies on his progress and to their difficulties, their attitude is characterized by its ability to accommodate growth and the demands it is subjected.

Adolescence is a period of life ranging from childhood and youth, or that comprises between 12 and 21 years old.

This is a time when the teenager looks, wants to become someone but do not know how, why is it that makes the adolescent trials may sometimes be viewed badly by the family and society, forgetting that adults These tests are needed to strengthen its identity.

The identity, is understood as a sense of continuity and sameness that is, be yourself and what allows the individual to differentiate themselves from others.

Adolescence is a stage full of crises since adapt to changes involves physical, psychological and environmental, since it is the time it begins to stop being a child. This leads to be an important task at this stage to accept the loss of that child.

Some symptoms or frequent attitudes at this stage are as follows:
• begin to operate more independently.
• They have a sense of identity itself stronger and cohesive.
• Examine their internal experiences.
• They get the ability to think about the consequences of their ideas.
• an increase in emotional stability.
• They allow friendships are important and which occupy an appropriate place among all their other interests.
• There is an increase in interest about the future.
• It gives greater importance to the role that is played in life.
• There are signs of shyness, sonrojo and discomfort.
• We present a greater interest in the opposite sex.
• There is a severe concern in relation to their physical attractiveness and sexual relationship with others.
• Increased feelings of love and passion.
• get a strong sense of their sexual identity.
• There is an increase in capacity ara feel tender and sensual love.