Sex - The first sexual test

The idea of having sexual relationships for the first time, causes enthusiasm and fear at the same time, two emotions that they produce nuisances and they drive away the tranquility. To ésto he/she is added the hurry, the annoyance and the lack of an appropriate place that surround to the act in general.

Virginity, sexual relationships, contraception, they arrange the youths in position of if what are is correct or wrong.

On one hand, the adolescents wonder about if the contraception and the methods of contraception are general purpose... You are a phenomenon that are given in all the social classes. The question is how and who are under conditions of helping these youths to solve in the taking of decisions.

The problem has to do with the changing and variable, with the indecision, with the possibilities or impossibilities of speaking of these topics. Many constantly wonder with who to speak to it. The doubts face them: fear to speak with the parents, fear to the what an one will say, to the pregnancy, to the first time.

In this whole mixture, you are some bad points and other good ones. The good ones, are that our parents, grandparents, professors and all those that suppose to be or to have been an important influence in our lives, they have gone by the same test. Each one with different features, but in the essence, the same process.

Now then, the bad point, is that they can be grasped to myths and that perhaps they transmit them. All they are human and also, the same as the same youths, have received distorted information. In such a case, the most advisable thing is that the boys go that appeal to a third instance: varis gratuitous services exists in the hospitals, for example, where one can receive information in particular on this topic and to be advised.

You are important to speak with the parents, with the friends or with the couple, about the risk of the pregnancy. This is valid as much for women as for males, since it should be a concern of all occasion, for the possibility of a not wanted pregnancy. The statistics and the clinical test demonstrate that many couples don't take birth-control measures, not even to prevent the infection of illnesses of sexual transmission. You are important not to forget that the two risks (I embarrass and infection of HIV), run parallelly.

Not forget that you are always to ask for the opinion of a professional regarding this last statement to be advised correctly.

A very frequent question is if the youths begin sexually for love or they are allowed to take for the influence of the friends that you/they already made it. Evidently, the social pressure is important because on one hand, the friends that already had sexual relationships press so that those that didn't make it still stop to be virgin, to be equalized and this way to be able to share.

As the person goes acquiring sexual test, this will go modifying. The changes are exactly same in all the women. Not it is necessary to think that the males know all envelope the sex. You are good also, to learn things together, leaving you to take for the own body and for that of the other one. Me for on all the things: you are to TAKE CARE, you are to be responsible. You are important to know that throughout the life one goes learning always something more about the sexual thing. Each encounter will be a new test.