
Even at a certain age, make your life a core script with your favorite music: the need to get out of bed in the mornings and study the rhythms are desquiciantes. The aid, in an unconscious way to socialize: Synchronize your time with his generation. Thanks to the music together with their peers and through the same traits as taste in choosing clothes, hair, eat certain brands are autoafirman different from other kids his age and calling the attention of adults.
Part of their identity
In some cases, to speak of identification with the lyrics, although most of the music you hear is foreign. Or do not understand what they say, its reliance on music is a fact and most of their conversations revolve around it.
This dependence affects the rest of the family as it extends, for example, travel by car. The kids love the feeling of going in a car shudders with the percussion group favorite, while parents, desperate dream of earplugs and ejection seats, as those of combat aircraft, or who wish to arrive discs stolen car to end this slavery.
Prefer stuns
The ipod, mp3, cell phones etc. .. allow them to isolate, but not the same. It must mark the distances with their "old" and announce it at full volume. Prefer music that comes out of his room like an explosion, which extends down the aisle and makes waves rumble across the floor. His rationale is simple: just sounds better. And do not put up with at home.
They found that the portable music, which are not separated or in the swimming pool, is an ingenious way to terrorize all adults in general. When we listen, we think clatter and a succession of unintelligible noises that let us make the generational gap. And this despite the fact that we live and the phenomenon of rebellion in our youth and music are supposed to be more willing to tolerate rhythms we dislike, like we had our most hated songs.
You can not do anything for the children of others we do not pollute acoustically, but exercise some control over the conduct of our music. A conversation about the different tastes of everyone and respect that should exist by the preferences of others may be sufficient. It is clear that his music is very important to them, but we must make them understand that we appreciate it more likely that the same happens to them
when we offered to Eric Clapton. Therefore, we must agree on the appropriate places and the optimal volume to listen to music at home.
A good solution is to consider preferences "extremists" of parents and children as "worship music" that can only be heard in private. That is, if heavy metal is superior to our forces, we ask that you not listen in the middle of the living. In return, we will not hear opera, bolero singer or genre or hate them except with headphones or in his absence. In places, like the car or the living, when they meet several family members, listening to something neutral, not dislike anyone.
There is always solution
We let them who are proposing a plan to listen to music is acceptable to themselves and others. But if you are unable to do their part, must accept our standards, which include stop listening while studying, for example, if it interferes with their grades.