6/04/2008

The divorce as an alternative to problems in partnerships

The couple and their stable world, has experienced severe changes in recent times, and today's society open and tolerant, welcomed that people find the opportunity to rebuild their lives.

The separation and the formation of a new partner, divorce and the fact to remarry, are now closely connected in our society, as many of those who divorce tend to remarry or form new partnerships, sometimes shortly after the separation.

Usually, the longer a person remains free to marry after the divorce, less likely to re-marry. Many of those who do not return to do so, regret, as they would like to re-form pair, but can not find the right person, while others do not marry by choice.

In some ways it is understandable that those who are separated or divorced recently may be reluctant to new relationships, marriage for them, has meant an experience of suffering, destruction and bitterness such that it is impossible to imagine a second chance.

However, some cache marriages where one or more rarely both members, want to marry someone else, which has been in love. Although it is normal that arise from serious relationships overnight, the common word "enjoy" indicates a study to the strangeness and fragility in the emerging afloat the deepest feelings.

It should also be noted that in relations triangle, where there is already a mistress, who is in the midst of the transition between a relationship and the other, can also experience pressure from her lover, sometimes sufficient to be considered as a kind of blackmail.

The lover, anxious and insecure, fearing that the feelings of loyalty and commitment to family was crossing the road in his new happiness, or may try to threaten to fight with his new partner ending the relationship. And well, although suffering such pressures may respond by taking a decision, its consequences will be very different from those of a decision taken by someone who has the opportunity to think and accept the long-term consequences. The important decisions should not be compelling even for the person who takes, and it becomes very difficult for everyone involved.

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