Showing posts with label anguish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anguish. Show all posts

7/31/2008

What to do if your child makes fun of others

It may be that our son is not the victim of history, but he who mocks others.
If this is a persistent and unreasonable attitude, we should analyze what is happening in the family dynamics or investigate whether any conflict of his inner world could be driven to ensañamiento with others.

The jealousy on the birth of a brother, disagreements among parents, school failure ... anguish that may occur later channelled through a verbal aggressive attitude.
If necessary, we should consult a psychologist.

7/29/2008

The babies have nightmares?

While sleeping, babies go through statements and pleasant displacenteros. Some authors relate this with the dream and, if the human dream has beautiful dreams and ugly, also have babies.

For the vast majority of specialists, the dream has therapeutic effect, it would try to metabolize life experiences daytime.
For that reason, it is advisable not interrupt, except that the nightmare is so intense that join the baby in much anguish, and then it is advisable to wake up.

7/20/2008

How to overcome difficult situations

Differences of views, injustices, not attitudes that we like and we get angry always going to happen.

Such situations often lead to an attack immediately erupted in anger, anger and consequently aggressiveness.

To live with this, you should start by controlling the instant reaction of that anger that stems from your being. Breathe deep and count to 10 when you feel such a burst. Once you've learned to control these first few seconds of anger, it's time to learn to cope with what follows.

For example, let's assume that your partner has forgotten again to pay taxes on the relevant date. When you whole, you get angry a lot, but before creating a fight without limits that can lead to aggressiveness, relax, close your eyes, up to 10 accounts, and you're talking about the matter.

Explain calmly to the other person why you are so angry with this situation, your fears, your anxieties and criticisms.

Proponle start thinking a solution to the problem, for example, agree that one day prior to the deadline for paying the tax status of the proposal in the example above, no longer stuck somewhere that is in sight, invoices and a note of remembrance.

Find ideas for solving problems, and also to help them not become repeat, is essential.

In this way, your behaviour towards difficult times will be extremely successful.

4/10/2008

Agoraphobia or status without exit

Inside the most current phobias and with a number that are increased with running of the time, we find the agoraphobia.
Erroneously, you have understood each other that the agoraphobia is the fear to the open spaces, but in fact, you are from the panic to be in places or status, of those that it could be difficult or embarrassing to escape.

A comprehensive place represents for the agoraphobic the impossibility of requesting help. on the other hand, a thin space or closed you are interpreted as a fraud without outlet possibility, for that that the claustrophobia (very invalidating for the quotidian life), is not more than a concrete manifestation of the agoraphobia.

The agoraphobia is shot in public places with great people affluence, either streets, means of conveyance, stores, stores, among other; or in closed spaces. It can limit our activity until to live confined in the homestead, ansisos of being in company of somebody confidential for if a panic attack is unchained or of anxiety.

To confront this phobia class, they are main the treatments and relaxation methods, respiration. You are about teaching to the patient the inaginar fact that are in a positive status. These are very positive petitions, since a specific drug treatment doesn't exist for ésto, although the medicines that makes you are to help to diminish the anxiety or anguish.