Showing posts with label cultures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cultures. Show all posts

9/02/2008

Fetishism in history

The oldest cultures include fetishism as one of the strongest demonstrations and entrenched. Some tribes in Africa or the Amazon adorn their sexual organs, sometimes for religious reasons, others by aesthetics.

In East is widespread custom of tattooing. Complications figures and ornaments cover the body.
Hence, there is only one step to reach the western makeup that women use to highlight or disguising their factions, trying to highlight their beauty and become more desirable for men. The same goes with other elements such as earrings, jewelry, hairstyles ... all of them, common elements in many communities,
in one way or another.

Religion is not excluded from this list.
In Mexico is worshipped with some clay figurines of sexual organs disproportionate, and attitudes completely explicit.
The Egyptians made representations with the divinities male phallus outside his clothes.

And in Christianity are famous capitals of the Romanesque churches, which showed relationships between women, men and beasts. The faculty of ashlar Cathedral of Oviedo is known for having sizes and today could be described as pornography.

2/19/2008

Healthy and happy children

Which are the alcoholatura good treatments that a boy needs to grow healthy and felíz?

Before anything else, we will make reference to the term "good treatments" used in the header. For many professionals that work exactly with children or mistreated people, ésto means that the children ean respected as legal persons anyone are your singularity. This involves to provide you cares physiques, power supply, health care, coat, among other; and taken care pscioafectivos, fondness unconditional respect of your person condition. You are also very important the or the educational contributions, so that they learn how to modulate your emotions, desires and behaviors to be respected themselves and your fellow men, including to all the alive other beings and the nature in general. Lastly, in the notion of good treatments the contributions should be included for a healthy and responsible socialization, that is to say that the children have the elements to build your personal histories or your identity, starting from the family, cultural and social reports surrendered in truthful and participatory conversations with the adults and pairs of your family, of your community and of your society.

To facilitate that the children have it doesn't only make aware of your histories of life but also of the reality that have played you to live, and so that they can commit with others in the change of this reality if you are unjust, violent and oppressive; you are completely fundamental a process of healthy socialization. This resides in assuring, as cmunidad, protection to the children in case your families, in the institutions or in the society they are confromtados to status of violence. the good treatments are mainly the result of a social production, not only family, but the effort that the whole community should make for the childhood.

During the period of gestation, as well as after the childbirth, the woman segregates a hormone: oxytocin that help to the attachment of your link with the baby, as well as the emotional protection that are also generated starting from her. Unfortunately, the effect of the oxytocin is influenced by the social and cultural contexts; and mainly, for the test of the mothers' life.

A mother with a childhood traumatized by bad treatments, for example, or that that your maternity lives downloads status of violence, in spite of the oxytocin, you will have difficulties in attaching to your son healthily, with the necessary empathy to assure you the good treatment that deserve. The men also have hormones, as the vasopresina that he/she explain the innate capacity to take care and to protect the children; but you seem to be that this hormone is terribly vulnerable to the ideological elements of the patriarchal culture that, with your beliefs and myths, you reduce the man to a condition of dominant, competitive and, many times, abusive and I force. Fortunately, little by little the ho, decent bres is involved more and more in the cares of your children and the emotions and the fondness lose fear.

You are certain indicators of a relationship of good treatments with the children. For example, mothers and parents that offer your children a safe attachment and they react with empathy in front of the lawsuits of satisfaction of your necessities, but at the same time they maintain the necessary authority to protect them and to educate them. another factor is when the demonstrations of affection and fondness live with pleasure; as well as when you move you to verify the efforts that he/she make the boy to advance in your development. When they are sensitive to your emotional sufriemiento and they know your son in toto, either in likes, interests, friends or customs. And, lastly, your children have a momentous importance in your lives, and for that reason soncapaces of respecting your differentiation processes, accompanying them in all the avatars of roundtrips that it enter the development process.

1/02/2008

What name do they have the Anniversaries of Wedding?

The names that are allocated to each marriage anniversary, vary according to the different cultures and traditions. However, the most accepted and generals are the following ones:

1 year. cotton weddings
2 years. paper weddings
3 years. leather weddings
4 years. weddings of wax
5 years. wooden weddings
6 years. weddings of sugar
7 years. wool weddings
8 years. fitting weddings
9 years. weddings of mud
10 years. tin weddings
11 years. steel weddings
12 years. silk weddings
13 years. weddings of moss
14 years. ivory weddings
15 years. porcelain weddings
16 years. sapphire weddings
17 years. rosa weddings
18 years. weddings of turquoise
19 years. cretonne weddings
20 years. glass weddings
21 years. opal weddings
22 years. brass weddings
23 years. beryllium weddings
24 years. satin weddings
25 years. silver weddings
26 years. jade weddings
27 years. acayú weddings
28 years. nickel weddings
29 years. velvet weddings
30 years. pearl weddings
31 years. skin weddings
32 years. copper weddings
33 years. porfirio weddings
34 years. amber weddings
35 years. coral weddings
36 years. muslin weddings
37 years. iron weddings
38 years. weddings of mercury
39 years. crepé weddings
40 years. emerald weddings
41 years. iron weddings
42 years. pearl-shell weddings
43 years. flannel weddings
44 years. topaz weddings
45 years. cinnabar weddings
46 years. lavender weddings
47 years. Kashmir weddings
48 years. amethyst weddings
49 years. cedar weddings
50 years. weddings of gold
55 years. weddings of orchids
60 years. diamond weddings
65 years. rosewood weddings
70 years. platinum weddings
75 years. alabaster weddings
80 years. oak weddings