
We all know that throughout our lives we should face many problems of different nature. None knows the great mystery of the happiness, neither he/she has the solution so that in a to open up and to close of eyes the problems they disappear. Each who he/she should learn how to overcome them to their menare by means of the test and the incrementación of the spiritual energy through her. However a main rule exists to live in plenum happiness and power on taking the best problems: to "look at the full vessel and never the blank" vessel.
Frequently, we want to have a life without problems, without nuisance, without disillusions and with a lot of affection. It would be ideal to only live flanked of understanding, allowance, respect, and love for oneself and apart from this. But that world doesn't exist, and this world is full with conflicts to learn how to overcome them and to take out of them the respective teachings. Many times, you more and more difficult tornan those problems or status, to the point of transforming into status borders. And it is here when we believe that if we don't solve them soon we will no longer be able to revert this cumulative negatividad. It is like a black cloud that takes possession of our being, and that you exterioriza, be this way by means of the body like of the soul.
The only solution is to discover for ourselves the answer to leave this negatividad that is wrapping up and that it doesn't allow that we see the sunlight.
The first step is to be convinced that you can fight with the conflicts, to be willing to minimize its importance, that is to say, not to make of each problem the lead wire or the recursive topic of our life. It is also necessary to be willing to investigate and to see from out the status, with the goal that the objectivity allows to understand the problem and to find actual solutions. But mainly we should not accuse others for our difficulties. Just by accepting that we are responsible for what happens, we will be able to begin to dilute our problems.
Before the conflicts we should:
To work the car knowledge and to take conscience of the own lacks, attitudes and resolution potentials that we have before the drawbacks.
To be about improving, instead of to make problem or to point out the error to our fellow men. What we see in them is many our times errors and limitations.
Any status that affects us is an occasion to look toward our interior one and don't bind opportunity for the negative reaction.
It is not about deleting the negative feeling, but of elevating it. That is to say, of lighting a light amid a room to dark. She will guide us and this way, we will be able to find well the one in route to continuing to arrive to where we want to make it.