Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

12/21/2009

10 Tips on how to be happy


1- Have faith.
It is based on delivering the problems and fears of a higher power. The gift of faith answers the question: "What problem want to give to God?". Thus, without thinking we can get rid of all our doubts, reservations and limitations.

2- Love.
It is the expression of our affection. The gift of love answers the question: "What I see beauty in things and people around me?". Although it is good to use it as a couple, the gift of love could also be used to create more than romance. Thanks to him we can take conscious-mind choose the best of anyone else, whether an individual, a group of people, animal, plant or even the ocean.

3- Dreams.
It is the gift of creation. It is unique to humans because we are the only known life form capable of having good intentions and carry them out. Answer the questions. "What would make me happy?".

4- Courage.
This gift responds to the question: "What am I willing to try?". It is the gift that makes the changes are fun and exciting and give us no fear. While the gifts of love and dreams set in motion processes of creation, the gift of courage is the strength that makes things move.

5- unit.
Answer the question "Who can help?". It is the multiplication of the gifts of each of the inhabitants of the earth. This gift reminds us that we are not alone but are part of a tribe called the human family. The gift of unity can feel what they feel those with whom we have a similar soul, and they will be willing to join forces to achieve something greater than what one person can get.

6- The joy.
Answer the question "What is the best way to share or express my happiness?". The function of this gift is to give more value to the remaining nine. This suggests the gift of joy is that we should use the gifts only to survive but to satisfy the soul and motivate others to do likewise.

7- Trust.
Its function is to assist the delivery and also to earn the delivery of others. This gift has the function of consciousness, because when we say, think or do something that may be harmful to another, we feel bad, if we betray the trust placed in our person.

8- character.
It helps us understand who we are now and what we want to be in the future. Its function is to remind each of us is totally unique and necessary for life in the world. The gift of nature allows us to reinvent ourselves again and again throughout life, avoiding stagnation and nonconformity. Answer the question "Who want to be now?".

9- Gratitude.
It allows us to give thanks for everything we create through other gifts. Use this gift gives us peace, and we complete makes life with positive energy from others. The gift of gratitude answered the question "Who or what can I give thanks?".

10- The intention.
Thanks to the gift of intention, we can overcome the past and change something good for something better. Its function is to give strength to start again, or paste a leap forward. Answer the questions "What now?" And then? ".

8/06/2009

The world's happiest


The University of Leicester in England, has conducted the first global map of "happiness", which the Danes and Swiss are the happiest while those Burundians and Zimbabwe the least. The map was assembled by an expert in social psychology Adrian White, who based his analysis on life expectancy, economic welfare and access to education. The specialist used data published by UNESCO and the World Health Organization (WHO), to illustrate international differences on level of happiness.
The map includes 177 countries and is based on responses on the subject of some 80,000 people.

After Switzerland and Denmark, the happiest people are citizens of Austria, Iceland, Bahamas, Finland and Sweden, whereas among the top 20 are also Costa Rica (13), Netherlands (15), Malaysia (17) and Norway (19 ), while the United Kingdom remains at the forty-first and twenty-third in the U.S..
Among Latin American countries, Argentina are on the list (56), Bolivia (117), Brazil (81), Chile (71), Colombia (34), Cuba (83), Dominican Republic (42), Ecuador (111 ) El Salvador (61), Guatemala (43), Honduras (37), Mexico (51), Nicaragua (85), Panama (39), Paraguay (75), Peru (115), Uruguay (87), Venezuela ( 25).

10/21/2008

4 Tips wise to be happy!

If you want to prepare themselves to attract a person's life, or to rebuild their relationship, follow these 4 tips:

• Avoid complaints. If you live by becoming the victim, magnifies the problems and the other steals your energy, making you feel bad in your company.

• Thank you have. Learn to appreciate the affection that surrounds it. If you are trying to put their attention on the shortcomings, if you miss something.

• Is not outline a time getting to know someone. Adapt to change. A person who disappears from his life may be leaving the place that comes to true love.

• Be aware that love is not possessive nor confrontational. Leave aside the blame and recriminations. Couples are destroyed very easily when one party (or both) always looking for a culprit.

7/14/2008

Images that give good luck

It is important to know the meaning of the figure of talismans, because each has its particular target. It is increasing energy intentions according to each end.

We offer you know the meaning of the images used more, so you can choose the appropriate talisman for your particular case.

Rice: rice symbolizes fertility, protection, health and family. In addition, given the proximity of a marriage, and it strengthens the ties that hold a couple long-term future.

Bell: traditionally, the bells were used to ward off negative influences and to provide a transformation of energy. So, if you choose a talisman having a bell, you can repel the negative intentions of those who wish perjudicarte. They also help to improve morale and combat fatigue.

Caracol: the snail shell in the form of a spiral, has no beginning or end, so it is a symbol of infinity, and also symbolizes a constant movement. The meaning of the spiral of snail to man, is learning the good and bad moments in the life of the same.

Heart: The heart is a symbol of human vitality, derived from the functions of this body. It is extremely useful to balance the different emotions, and also to attract the affections and good wishes of others.

Key: Is it a single key, and especially if it is old, is identified with the good fortune in business and professional enterprises, as this element relates to the meaning of "open doors" If it is keys do, however, symbolizes the union of lovers.

Half Moon: This is a very good symbol to use new mothers and their babies, because the crescent protects the new lives as well as growth in the early days of the newborn.

Note: the image of the eye brings protection, and also serves to anticipate and avoid misfortune. It is a symbol of attracting abundance and wealth.

Turtle: turtle symbolizes long life and prolonging life through their children. For all these reasons, is used to promote fertility, procreation and happiness of the family.

6/06/2008

The pursuit of happiness

The pursuit of happiness has ido a constant throughout the history of mankind. The yearning of balance through the simple life is not a recent problem. We can explore ancient civilizations and discover all efforts to find answers.

The money, consumption, the rush, the stiff competition, labor, property accumulated, are all synonymous with success in our society. The rush to come first, by consuming and acquire the latest model or brand, either car, clothing or computers; have resulted in a situation where a large majority of people feels not find out. This is also compounded by the feeling of failure, thinking that the goal had always dreamed that this was not, or if you have reached the base to keep a daily dose of adrenaline, so you avoid the scorned, struggles with the bank, with co-workers, with your heads, and others. Too much hurry, too many tensions, less human relationships, less time for yourself and your desires, worse food, but atmosphere, worst dreams, in order. Progress can not be this, we have been ido out of hand.

The television, advertising, press, we have sold an image that has managed to persuade us that there is no other way of life. Maybe it is no other way of life. In the best we can begin to be masters of our existence without hitting the clock, breaking the chains that bind us as slaves to work. Ending our unhealthy relationship with money, spend less. Stop the train and we approach our lives simpler pleasures and we all have within our grasp, though in principle we are not aware of its existence, breathe deep, touching the ground and set more realistic goals and nearby. In it are thousands of people in more developed countries on the planet, claiming their right to be treated as citizens and not merely as consumers.

But we must be aware that happiness begins with feeling good with a single, assume your desires, let not influenced by society or by preconceived outline of the same.

It's more than that ever seen the kind of situations mentioned above, lead to a general anxiety and depression, increasingly common in all societies in the world. While you can not give recipes for happiness, we can only try to discover that everyone inside it what it is failing, and gradually alter their habits to their preference more real.

The vital objectives that were operating before them now have stopped motivating people, causing anxiety and feelings of guilt.

Ideas for a life with less stress and anguish

We give you some ideas to make sure to feel failed, for you are with yourself and get happiness. Put it into practice and see the results.

First desacelérate, learns to listen to your internal clock.

Declárale war to routine proponte a new project every week. Imponte an inducement to the weekly routine.

Turn off the television. This way you will earn a time unthinkable to develop new facets.

Say NO to coupling of new technologies. Only use it as tools.

Home sweet home: put more excitement in the comfort of your home. You'll feel much better.

Check the order of your priorities: Is ambition, money, success?

Recover contact with nature. Learn to stop and enjoy the silence, the sound of trees, flavourings forgotten.

Find the balance. Waiver of excesses.

Practice at least half an hour of moderate exercise every day.

It changes with the seasons, adjust your schedule and your habits to each of them.

Discover the healing power of silence.

Relax at least half an hour per day by day. That solitary space you relaxed and help you continue with your business.

Practice once every little while a cure detoxification informative (outside television, newspapers, radio).

5/21/2008

I only have friends men...

This status, is for many women (and every time they are more), excessively common. You turn out to be that, less and less women have friends of your same sex, and you don't depend on economic position, age or social class. You are more, many of the times who are identified with these words, search to have friends of your same genus but they don't achieve it.

The certain thing is that the links among women are easier when men don't exist of for half, that makes to the bars and clubs, a difficult place to sum up friendships of this type.

If you begin to involve yourself in activities like for example the music, the art, the sport, trips and movies; you will find potential friends among those that share your same interests, in an environment where they are not competing to attract the masculine carefulness.

In second place, you are good to know that the friendship is based on common values and not in a pretty physique. Therefore, you should let that they are not guided by your appearance, but for who are, to show you inside. Many times the appearances deceive.

You are necessary to also advise that when one knows a "possible" friend, you are not only good that you chat with her but rather you also hear it. The communication is extremely necessary to be known and to generate the trust among both. People that know how to hear have big friends.

To conclude, you are important to keep in mind that the friendship's more beautiful part among women is the fact of sharing moments and laughs with them. With that in the mind, the best thing is that you concentrate on the things that make you happy so that this way, you can share that happiness with new people.

4/03/2008

Do you love me or don't you love me?

For many years, people's thousands were in search of the so beautiful daisy-wheel to defoliate them, with the purpose of knowing if that person so desired by him or her, you loved him. For ésto, to each petal that started up of the flower he/she repeated: You love me, you don't love me...

In this opportunity, we offer you another method to obtain the answer, but not with daisy-wheel, but with potatoes. The inducement of this method, is that you won't have to exit in search of nunguna flower, you don't depend on any station of the year, and you are about an element that you are always in all kitchen.

How to make it:
Then, in order to discover if your couple relationship will be durable and the true love exists between both, one day Friday you will put a potato in a vessel or flask with water until the half. The water of the vessel should be renewed every day Friday. You leave the potato in the water during 2 or 3 weeks, until seeing if you rot or you toss roots. If you rot, you mean that you will have problems with your couple. Now then, in case you toss roots, you will be able to bury the potato in a gavel and to make sure a great period of happiness. Also, if the potato grows in the earth, this means that your couple's future will be very promising, full of tranquility and a lot of happiness.

In case you have problems, debit sides to know that all the couples cross crisis moments or fights in those that certain distancings that transform them to both into true strangers take place. To avoid them, you are only necessary to have good communication and to achieve the understanding between both.

The ideal thing, and that many times you are difficult of sobrellevar, you are to learn one of the other one and to understand the reaction forms in these occasions. The communication can be through the sincere dialogue or simply, with a deep look that allow us to know that you are thinking and feeling the other one. Then, thanks to the understanding between both, you will be easier to combat the desencuentros and to avoid the big couple conflicts.

3/25/2008

Popular Saints

To weigh that the word "saint" remits us to an imaginary Christian, this physique it is characteristic of many other religious beliefs. The identification of the sanctity in each society, you are determined by your history. This way, inside the communities in those that live, people share a communio" "memory on your past and your beliefs. The interpersonal loops, built of that religious shared identity inside the community, they are lived and interpreted through the filter that represent the vision of the world with which each one understands the reality that surround it. This only is not good to understand each other, but rather you also constitute an offered new of faith, through the one which, you are possible to consent and to communicate with god.

This process in which a person intends to participate of the divine grace through the faith and of the devotion, you are characterized by the appearance of a necessity of confirmation. In this sense, the effectiveness of a saint is measured in two aspects. On one hand, in terms of the expectation that the devote one apparent for him; that is to say, the more faith one has in the saint, more effectiveness you are presupposed. For other, a mythical character transforms into saint when you carry out miracles, that is to say, when you solve seemingly impossible problems by means of supernatural powers.

But... How to identify them? Well, leaving of the base that a saint is a mythical character that act for the devote one, as an intermediary between the earthly (material and human) world and the celestial (immaterial and divine) one, thanks to the miracles that it carry out. The reports and the religious practices that describe the saint's revelations in issue (half human hero and at the same time, half divine), are evidence of your power. In the case of the Catholic or orthodox saints, the faithful ones interpret those myths and rituals as exemplary models to continue. This way, the believer is identified with the saint being about incorporating your behavior model, represented by the one on the way to the revelation trafficked by this. On the other hand, the playback of these reports and rituals have a superimposed feature: you refresh the faith of the devote one, at the same time that you popularize the custom of adoring the saint. However, this identification depends on the legal capacity or image that the saint transmits. Such you are the case of the religious physiques of European medieval tradition, as San Jorge or San Cristóbal, two very different fellows. While the first were a warring saint, with a tragic outcome, but with a joyful life of being able to and ascending line among your pairs, of the second is related that you were a giant rejected by your town that he/she lived isolated in the mountains being earned a living helping people to cross a river. The one expressed is one of the reasons for those that, at the present time, this type of saints has taken away from the popular preference to be changed by other nearer ones to people's history and more concerned for your concrete problems.

Those are today's popular saints, a novel and different phenomenon that, of course, you continue cohabiting with the most orthodox devotion for the Catholic saints, some of those which, they continue capturing people's majority interest, like you are the famous case of San Cayetano in Argentina, among many others.

3/24/2008

Gems for the beauty

Not there is woman that don't want to be beautiful and, why not to say it, neither there are men to those that they don't like to shine well; you have always been this way. You prove of you are it that they have been prehistoric chasers that demonstrate that the personal aspect was kept in mind. The form of braiding the hairs, of painting the face, of being adorned, gave account of the importance that have always had the beauty and the armoníaa for all the cultures of the world throughout the time.But the true beauty leaves of a healthy mind and of a body slaudable. You vislimbra in some limpid eyes, in a strong and brilliant hair, and in an expression of happiness. The esoterism, through your knowledge of the nature for the white magic and thanks to the contribution of the medieval alchemists, you coined occult useful formulas to this end.

The gems are fruit of the Mother Earth and, as long as such, they concentrate your positive energy. You associate them with the beauty, the sanación and the protection. The wonderful one to be able to of the gems resides in that don't act directly on the physical body, but from the other plans or subtler bodies, funneling your radiant force on each chakra. The elixirs with gems are inside the named therapies vibracionales with water. To obtain good results and to achieve an elixir that have energy great value, you proceeds to arrange the gems inside sterile flasks and covered by pure water. Then, the flasks are exposed to the solar radiations or moles and, this way, they are loaded to be able to be used.

The poison of the beauty
To carry out this magic elixir with gems, you come in the following way:
In a transparent, previously washed glass bottle and sterility (for you boil it the bottle in water), to arrange: 7 transparent quartzes and 1 rosy quartz. You add 1 liter of mineral water. Arrange you a hermetical plug and leave it to the bleakness during 7 days, so that you receive the beneficent rays of the moon and of the sun. Retract it at the hour in that the sun is stronger.
During the 7 days in that you will leave them being loaded of energy, make the following: you take the bottle in your hands and you display the quality that you want to print in the elixir, in this case to "obtain the beauty." You accompany your intention with the power of the word repeating 7 times the qualities that he/she will have your elixir. You drink a glass per day during 7 days. Mantén the elixir in the cooler during that week and you discard the remainder.

12/13/2007

Divination The Oracle of the Circle

From times immemorial the man has had queries on itself and on the nature, and it has always appealed to different methods to arrive to his answers. Firstly those elements that surrounded it were: bones, snails, etc. then the stars, the fire or the water, among other. To all these methods they are called oracles, and the forces that participate in them they are really actual.

One of these oracles is the oracle of the circle, a very plain method of divination of carrying out and very amusing of practicing. Here you will know how to make it, and how to interpret the elements that participate in him.

You will need:
-Resistant (jean, linen, etc) cloth.
-Acrylic paint of different several colors.
-It rules, compass, conveyer, pencil and scissors.

It proceeds this way:
It measures and it draws on the cloth, a circle of 15 diameter cm. Then it divides the circle with the help of the conveyer in twelve parts of 30º each one. Already marked, it paints each sector with a contrasting color in a staggered way. For example, one red, another yellow one, another green, another blue, and so forth. You can repeat the colors once ended the series that you have chosen. Once dry the base, paints in each sector numbers from the 1 to the 12, of right to left.

The meaning of the numbers:
1 mean the next year, 2 mean the money, 3 the trips, 4 the family life, 5 the present. 6 the health, 7 mean the love and the relationships, the 8 mean the law and the justice, 9 your pansies, 10 the work and your profession, 11 the friends, and the 12 mean the enemies.

How to consult the oracle:
To consult the Circular Oracle, he/she takes three dice of different colors, but that they are of the same size. Only use them with the purpose of consulting the oracle, it doesn't stop to play to any other thing.
Each face of the dice means the following: 1 positive, 2 to culture the relationships, 3 success, 4 deception or it punishes, 5 positive trend, 6 unwarranted status.
When you will consult this oracle, you will search a calm place and to prepare mentally the problem on which you want to consult. It throws the dice on the chart and notice in that sector fell. When you have ended it allows to consume a candle and guard together the chart and the three dice in a special place.

It adds of the dice and sectors of the circle:
When you throw the dice, it will add the number of each face of the dice with the number of the circle sector where he/she has fallen. The meanings are the following ones:
3 positive and unexpected events, 4 deception or personal dissatisfaction, 5 something new that provides happiness, 6 forfeiture in the businesses or spiritual gain, 7 retardations and barriers that you/they cause a scandal, 8 negative strong influences, 9 success in the love and near reconciliation, 10 births and new start. ascents, 11 illness or item. anxiety, 12 a message that brings good news, 13 pain and negative long term events, 14 a new friend and he/she helps of other, 15 temptation to make grievances and to fall in the flaw, 16 good for the trips, to leave now will bring short term fortune, 17 change of plans. you allow yourself to guide for the intuition, 18 very good fortune, happiness and benefits in the proximate future.

12/10/2007

To be released of the negative thing

We all know that throughout our lives we should face many problems of different nature. None knows the great mystery of the happiness, neither he/she has the solution so that in a to open up and to close of eyes the problems they disappear. Each who he/she should learn how to overcome them to their menare by means of the test and the incrementación of the spiritual energy through her. However a main rule exists to live in plenum happiness and power on taking the best problems: to "look at the full vessel and never the blank" vessel.

Frequently, we want to have a life without problems, without nuisance, without disillusions and with a lot of affection. It would be ideal to only live flanked of understanding, allowance, respect, and love for oneself and apart from this. But that world doesn't exist, and this world is full with conflicts to learn how to overcome them and to take out of them the respective teachings. Many times, you more and more difficult tornan those problems or status, to the point of transforming into status borders. And it is here when we believe that if we don't solve them soon we will no longer be able to revert this cumulative negatividad. It is like a black cloud that takes possession of our being, and that you exterioriza, be this way by means of the body like of the soul.

The only solution is to discover for ourselves the answer to leave this negatividad that is wrapping up and that it doesn't allow that we see the sunlight.

The first step is to be convinced that you can fight with the conflicts, to be willing to minimize its importance, that is to say, not to make of each problem the lead wire or the recursive topic of our life. It is also necessary to be willing to investigate and to see from out the status, with the goal that the objectivity allows to understand the problem and to find actual solutions. But mainly we should not accuse others for our difficulties. Just by accepting that we are responsible for what happens, we will be able to begin to dilute our problems.

Before the conflicts we should:
To work the car knowledge and to take conscience of the own lacks, attitudes and resolution potentials that we have before the drawbacks.
To be about improving, instead of to make problem or to point out the error to our fellow men. What we see in them is many our times errors and limitations.
Any status that affects us is an occasion to look toward our interior one and don't bind opportunity for the negative reaction.
It is not about deleting the negative feeling, but of elevating it. That is to say, of lighting a light amid a room to dark. She will guide us and this way, we will be able to find well the one in route to continuing to arrive to where we want to make it.

12/03/2007

Are the Men but Happy that the Women

The men, happier than the women
# According to a studio that was centered in studying how they felt each one from the sexes when carrying out different activities.
# What is a pleasure for some men, for them ends being a work.

To qualify and not to quantify data.

That was the terminus a quo of a studio that concludes that the men are happier than the women.

The investigators not only asked to men and women what they made day by day in its, but how they felt when making it. Of their answers curious conclusions are extracted.

To begin, as The relates New York Time, the women experience a similar grade of happiness when visiting their parents that when making the laundry. Why? For social mere network role. While for a man to visit their parents usually supposes that it can begin in the sofa to talk while he/she takes a beer, for a woman it usually supposes a 'extra' working in form of help to their general ledgers.

The curious thing is that, with the time, in spite of the gradual comparison of social network roles, the status has changed. At the beginning of the 70, the women were (according to their answers) happier than the men, although nowadays the things have changed (PDF), according to an investigation of Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers, of the University of Pennsylvania.

The papers are invested
Alan Krueger, an economist of Princeton, it has found answer to the question of why this is happening: from the decade of those '60, the men have gone aborting all activity that displeases them progressively.

To say it in another way, every time they work less and they relax themselves more. But I eat there is not studio without their figures, these they are the data: 40 years ago, a normal woman dedicated 23 hours per week in activities that displeased him/her, about 40 minutes more than any man. Nowadays the difference has increased to an hour and a half.

This explanation, according to David Leonhardt, fits with the sociologist's work Arlie Hochschild, in which argued that the women of nowadays they have two works: one in the office, the other one at home.