Showing posts with label boyfriends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label boyfriends. Show all posts

4/13/2008

Sex - Exchange of microbes in the sex

The sex, ademá of pleasure, only involves a racking of germs comparable to that of the daily coexistence. Millions of minuscule bugs chase for our anatomy. You are all one sway of microorganisms and bacterium, but most of the times are harmless and without consequences.

More than a penis it would undertake the retreat if you knew that when franking that mysterious vagina to which lean out, it will navigate among 12 million microbes for square centimeter! The fémina would also adjoin your legs if they announced you that the masculine member gathers between 17 and 20 million microbes and that your torrential ejaculation will flood it with 300.000 million microbes for seminal download...

In fact, although our immune system was in full abilities, our body is able to ignore a battalion of germs, and even non ucumbir before having determined virus, bacteria and mushrooms, three fronts that yes they can propitiate the infection and whose illnesses are susceptible of being transmitted with more easiness in couple. Until the most aseptic human he/she has the surface of your body, as well as the external holes and even the own alimentary tract, populated by microorganisms that form a protection (intestinal or vaginal, for example) flora that you/they preserve of noxious germs in occasions.

To be excessively scrupulous with the tools of eating, to register the exclusivity of bathrobes, slippers or in the sexual relationships, you don't avoid the infection of a light infection that could only avoid living in a glass capsule.

That that yes you are within our reach you are to minimize in couple the alluvium of germs and to prevent that these move and live to your wide ones with relative easiness. An alcoholatura hygiene, only using soap in feet, arm pits and genital, coarse to maintain the volume of germs to skin flower in the borders of the normality.

For it, you are necessary that the objects of quotidian use are only low control with maintaining them clean, and mainly dry, since the prolonged dampness is a nest of germs and of sure transmission.

Now then, when the couple's member suffers an infection, you are convenient to put an end alintercambio to avoid an infection. That will mean, to be about abstaining sexually, as well as to diminish kisses, and of course, to reserve the individual use of the daily tools.

4/09/2008

How to maintain the love at distance

Nowadays, they are many the status of couples that have to be distanced by diverse reasons. The number of couples that you/they live this problem type, is increased day by day with running of the time. They are many the lawsuits so that ésto happens. Many times the work makes that, in this world globalizado, trips to the interior of your country and other times to the exterior. The studios also make that you travel, for example for maters or post grades, distancing you of your couple. But the most usual thing nowadays, is the fact that they exist more and more even that one knows for internet, falling in love and having to take drastic desiciones when formalizing.

To cause or to secure the loving link among people that should remain withdrawn physically by issues of geographical distance, we offer you a ritual. Make it every time that you believe it necessary and you will see the results.

Procedure:
1 - you get a loadstone in sheet, and you snip two hearts of the same size, 4cm for 4cm.
2 - you write with red enamel of nails in the reverse of the hearts the name of the couple's member.
3 - then, paste them with the faced names and a paper among mean that he/she say: "Our love is stronger than the distance."
4 - later, you decorate the front from the heart to your taste, and you send this loadstone for match to your lover or dear. In the envelope, you write with invisible (that it can be, for example, lemon juice) ink "San Valentine", and when closing the sóbre you invoke this way it: "Winged San Valentine, binds with your unbeatable arrow the hearts separated by the distance."

Always keep in mind that, the moorings are very actual if you are a strong link of love among the couple.

3/11/2008

Precocious Marriage

You should be considered as precocious marriage that that are made before the twenty years in the male, and before the eighteen in the woman.

The contracting futures and your parents should meditate seriously, consulting your case with oersonas specialized in these issues - psychologists, moralists and physicians, and also attorneys at law if legal aspects exist -, before deciding to take a step that can lead to an irreparable damage.

The precocious marriage outlines special problems of psychological nature, without, on the other hand, you possess special features from the point of view somatic although many physicians they consider that you exist a high incidence of aborts and eclampsia crisis in the gestating women of less than sixteen years. You are also considered, on the part of scientific agunos that the proportion of cancer of neck of uterine neck is higher in the women than they started the sexual relationships before the eighteen years.

The problems that the precocious marriage outlines derive of the immaturity emocinal of the husbands and of the inadequacy of the motivations that you/they have led to the marriage. Such an immaturity and such an inadequate motivation will lead to the divorce, or simplementa to the married onfidelidad. This is so certain that, according to a statistical data made by the Office of the Census of the United States, the number of divorces among the marriages in which the woman had less than twenty years, in the moment of the wedding, is three times general ledger that those in which the woman passed of the twenty-two.

Several they are the factors that contribute to the high incidence of the married infidelity in the precocious marriages. One of them resides in the inadequate couple election for impulsiveness, excessive romanticism and ignorance of the actual necessities of agreement with the own legal capacity and economic status. Another factor resides in the conflict that arise quickly among the obligations t responsibilities of the marriage and of the care of the children, on one hand, and the desire to participate in the dicersiones and type of life characteristic of the partners of both sexes that continue single, for another. You are also important the insecurity and restlessness that the man experiences because of your social and labor status, still without defining, especially when you are about students. In the cases in that the precocious marriage has been imposed more or less by a fortuitous pregnancy after one period prolonged of sexual relationships, the prognosis is even more unfavorable. In these marriages it always exists a hostility - fraud or declared - among the husbands, each one of which he/she make responsible to the other one of that happened and of the impositions that it have more than enough both they have fallen. Almost unanimously of experts, you are believed that you should be dissuaded the matrimoio motivated by the pregnancy in toto, n the cases in that the man and the woman don't want it genuinely and they go unavoidably to him due to the indeseada paternity. Although for the moment it can seem the best solution to leave the step, espreferible to confront the reality that to carry out a disastrous marriage, as much for the contracting parties as for the future children. Also, marriage's type is not "free."

In other occasions, the precocious actual marriage against the commission of the adults can be an expression of contempt of court before the society on the part of individuals with features psicopáticos and, therefore, specially immature for the marriage. Also, in many cases, the precocious marriage constitutes an escape of the paternal homestead of young inadaptados that you/they only want linerarse of the family tutelage and to be created, although you are artificially, an appearance of autonomy and social freedom. The prognosis of such marriages is easy to preview.

2/13/2008

Jealousies

As almost all the affective difficult tests, the jealousies, if they are treated correctly, they can be triggers of the personal increment, transforming into the first step of an enriching conscience of yes and of a bigger understanding, so much of the own partner as of the relationship.

Most of people that suffer a problem of jealousies, want to know if you are possible to expire the feeling that produce you anguish, pain, sadness, rages or even desperation. You can win this battle, but you won't be easy. The jealousies teach to people to not giving for discounted the love of the other one. The romantic love is not an eternal flame, you call to the one which, if you are not contributed fuel, sooner or later he/she ends shutdowning.

In the first moment, when we fall in love and our love is corresponded, we feel fortunate for the fact that such a wonderful person remunerates us our love. When we don't know with surety if our love is corresponded or not, the insecurity and the doubt intensify our emotions. We are willing to make any thing so that that wonderful person loves us. However, you too often happen that when we feel safe of the love and of our partner's compromise, we begin to give had discounted that loving link. We request things that we had not requested during the first stages of the relationship, and that we would never request to other people. Then, this way, our partner transforms into the only person in our life that are supposed" that you understand the pressures that we suffer in the work, or our absorbent dedication to the children, or to the friends, or to the community tasks.

When a relationship is strongly ingrained in confidential feelings and surety, a crisis of temporary jealousies can remind to the couple's members how important they are the one for the other one.

For those that give for discounted the love of the other one, or whose relationship has you bored tornado and anodyne; the jealousies can restore to the relationship of the place of precedence number one for the couple. The important thing is not to transform into an Otelo possessed by the feeble jealousies.

11/29/2007

Sew that the Men don't like of a Woman

There are many points to keep in mind when conquering a man. For ésto, it is elementary to keep in mind the following steps.

They don't support to:
- The desperate one. It is the one that wants to marry in the second encounter. It introduces to the parents, he/she speaks to him of the party and he/she fantasizes with children.
- The tight one. The one that pays never, no longer goes more.
It is better to share the expenses and to express generosity without abusing.
- A second mother. No way of taking their mom's post, because he/she already tells it the statement: “mother is an alone one.”
- The dribbly one. The one that calls to each time, he/she asks silly things, it controls their movements and he/she wants every minute to pass to their side, besides to speak to him as a baby and to seek to sleep the whole hugged night.
- The hot. It provokes it continually, without caring who is ahead. At the beginning they like, but later they get tired.
- The liar. It causes jealousies with invented histories, it is sent flowers with cards to itself, he/she cries and he/she is always a victim.
- The ordinate. He/she plans everything, it orders until the minimum it details, it arms routines, diets and perfect meetings.
- The intellectual. Pufff!, analyze until the moment to go to the bathroom, speak of free, theater and art, but when he/she goes to the hairdresser it is read all the chimento magazines!
- The very extroverted one. He/she speaks, he/she speaks, he/she speaks, he/she hugs, he/she kisses and he/she flirts (without stopping to speak).
- The strange one. It accompanies but not you
it integrates, he/she doesn't speak and it doesn't share activities with him.
- The Bush Hari. Spy him until finding him some detail that involves it in some infidelity, revising him the pockets, messages, the chat and the wallet!
- The one that has pity of all. He/she always brings to the sister, the cousin or the friend that it is in band and he/she doesn't have with who to leave.
- The jealous one. When the things pass of those that can be a demonstration of love, it is a bassoon.
- The interested one. He/she takes their boy as messenger, plumber, it sends it to pay tickets and to take it and irla to look for to any part.
- The unsightly one. It is not depilated, he/she has mustache, it uses fingernails I am used Gatúbela, he/she has the dark roots or he/she puts on the first thing that finds, although what doesn't pass for high is their bad scent.
- The faultfinder. It is pessimistic, anything comes him well and he/she wants to change everything.
- The antifootball. It doesn't tolerate the soccer and it doesn't allow that nobody enjoys it.
- The one that outlines everything. It arrives the weekend and it begins with the plants you about the relationship, the eternal love and the couple.
- The barbie. It is obsessed by the physical aspect. Super made up until to go to the gym, it uses you implant or he/she has some retouch and never this happy one with something of their body.
- The anti housewife. The one that he doesn't care to cook, says that he/she doesn't want to have children and the tasks of the home oppress it.
- The interrogator. How many fiancés did you have? Which that of your first time was it? How were they taken in the bed? To where did it take it? Bla bla bla...